How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want - The Natural

Richard is by far my favorite pua and confidence coach. He's calm and cool and confident about his system with out all the competitive behind the scene slandering of other 'guru's' that have nothing to do with us the consumer.. but instead the egos of the coaches around the world. i highly recommend Richards, "gambler's" products.

Reading this book is not going to help you score. I doubt...no i know, the author isn't as successful as he claims. If he was successful he would be using that self esteem to help him accomplish other endeavors other than writing a cheesy book to scam you. the fact that he thinks there is this magic formula to success with women is a joke. everyone is different, nothing works on everything. and the pick up lines.....oh my! "Do I look gay to you." that is literally one of the lines this idiot tells you to employ. he is not successful with women, he is successful at selling lies and bulls**t.

Another great source of pick up knowledge. I've been on and off picking up never quite mastering. Recently I have been following Richard's style and tips and plus reading The Natural and it's been filling in a lot of the gaps in my game. Great book and I plan to learn as much as I can from Richard.

This was a great read that offers loads of advice from openers to mid game, right through to how to keep a girl interested in you. I really enjoyed the how to connect with any girl section. Overall a superb book that any aspiring PUA should own.

Richard La Ruina's "The Natural" Was a really good read. It contains easy instruction on what to do from your own inner game to out on the street. From studying these types of book I've read a lot. I have also read Richards stuff from before so it dose comes off like I read this before "Word from Word" but saying that its been updated enough and added some new insight that you want to finish it from start to end. Is it a worth buy? YES. Can this help me? YES...but that depends on you and your own efforts! This is a good start for beginners and good points for the pros out there.

Richard offers some excellent advice on how to improve you self image through body language and improved self confidence. How to approach a woman and how to deal with anxiety is also helpful.

Although with regards to his methods of interaction with women his technique often involves dishonest statements and unnecessary manipulation of people.

Its probably the most fascinating book I've ever read in my life. Once I started it reading it, I couldn't stopped. I wanted to tried everything that I learned through it right away. It's just simple amazing!

Hello all single or dating guys out there .. Gary P here. Melbourne, AUSTRALIA.

A review for 'The Natural' A solid, well researched text. Worth the $25:00 or so bucks to go get it.

It will help your dating game and remember to do all the exercises and practice in it so you can GROW your confidence level in chatting to 'NEW' women in those social situations.

I'll probably write MORE later on when I've had more time to practice with the books contents.

Very few books give you so much valuable information that can change your perspective of the world and how you interact with it. Thankfully, this is one of those books.
Included in this book is a step by step guide to enhancing your personality, upgrading your lifestyle and as the title says attracting the women you want. It is perfect for any level of game from beginners with little to no knowledge to those who are at the more advanced levels who could just use some very good tips.
It takes you all the way from how to get over the anxiety many men suffer from just simply approaching beautiful women to escalating sexually using your voice, body language and touch. Richard La Ruina (Gambler to many) knows his material and shares it in an easy to understand and implement manner.
If you have been looking for the guide on how to handle this part of your life, then you need look no further, this is what you have been searching for.

show how it works the basis of attraction. But there are still elements of shallow behavior, not based in deep changes but masking only. But here you can find plenty techniques and tricks very useful.

This book is great. It has vital information and explanations for those of us who never "got it" before. As someone who can relate to his short biography in the beginning, it is great to see that with the right information and some hard (yet fun) work, that you can become exactly the person you have always wanted to be. The best part is, using some of the techniques he describes, in only 1 week I have already noticed a difference in the way I see myself, and the way others treat me.

Wow! Richard! you have given so much away for just 15 bucks! Incredible! The material contained in the book is worth a homestudy course! In just about two hundred pages you have shattered all my limiting beliefs. I don't care and don't even want to know what other's might be saying here but I must congratulate you. Thanks a ton Richard! Must read guys...give it a miss at your peril. This is the way of the superior man. Power to you. 'Nuff said:)

I am compelled to begin by sharing something rather interesting in connection with this book. I live in Oregon, and in my search for the best bargain on this book, I found a book dealer (through the store) in California that was offering it at an excellent price. I was like a little kid who had found a really cool toy online. So I wanted it in my hands as soon as humanly possible. California, being the state right below me, I figured that I would have my book in not time (4 days at the most). Well, within hours of placing my order, I received an email confirmation that my book had shipped! Great, right? Every day I checked its status, but before I knew it, the expected delivery date had changed to the 16th day of the "next" month (November)! I kept checking because it was difficult for me to believe that it could possibly take that long to get to me. Then, suddenly, the tracker placed my book in Washington! That is the state right "above" me! Somehow my book had skipped right over me! By this stage in my life, I am receptive to all of these "seeming" anomalies that show up every now and then. I now recognize them as "winks" from the Universe ;-) I sensed that this unexpected "shift" was telling me that this was going to be a "very good" book and to pay close attention to it.

Yesterday I went online to check again, and this time the tracker showed that my book was in town! "Out for Deliver," It read! I didn't have to wait until "next month" after all! It was awesome that it had arrived on a Saturday too, for it was when I had all the time in the world to dive right into it! I was very excited and anxious to begin reading it because I had looked at a few YouTube videos where Richard is sharing the wisdom that he has aquired and developed throughout his years of "actual", "in-field" experience. It is very difficult to find any "in-field" videos of Richard himself, in action, and I am the type who needs assurance that the author or teacher of "any" theory actually "practices" what he preaches, that he "lives" his message. I didn't give up on my search and did eventually come a across a rare "in-field" video that one of Richard's friends shot of him at a club, from a distance. I think without Richard knowing that he was being filmed. The friend was dissecting and explaining how Richard was able to take the gorgeous blonde sitting next to him, back to his hotel room. I was so drawn into this guy's game that I kept getting angry at his friend for stopping the video over and over again, in order to explain what was going on, phase by phase. The truly amazing thing to me was that Richard didn't seem to do much at all! I was almost shocked when suddenly they both stand up and Richard leads the gorgeous blonde out of the club! I was "SOLD!" I had seen a "REAL" natural in action, and that is exactly how the interaction played out in that video--like the most "natural" thing in the world.

Anyway, my curiosity was peaked and I excitedly searched for more videos. I soon found a really good one that touched on several points on how to establish a powerful emotional bond. Yet, Richard only touched upon the bullet points. I wanted to know the "mechanics." I wanted the "meat and potatoes"!I wanted to know how and why his techniques worked so powerfully and effectively.I wanted the "magic wand!"

As soon as I walked back into my apartment, I ripped open the packet containing my book--like a kid who had waited way too long for Christmas morning to arrive--and with my eyes as wide as they could go, I began to read. Very quickly, I was in another dimension, in a whole other world, the world of seduction. I could not, for the life of me, put this book down! I literally "devoured" it in one sitting! I did not go to sleep until 2:00AM! By the time I flipped the very last page, almost every single page had at least one key point that impacted me, highlighted "and" underlined! I had writen all kinds of notes on several margins, and even pasted plastic tabs on the sides of the pages that held what I recognized to be the most "POWERFUL" tools! Sometimes I couldn't believe that Richard was revealing all of this! He gained an incredible amount of repect from me and inspired me to share as unselfishly with my fellow human beings.

Soon I started to recollect experiences in which I had messed up a potential connection with a beautiful woman. Now, because of this book, it all made "perfect" sense! Now I understood why I had dropped the proverbial ball!

One of the reviewers here stated that this book (The Natural) is a copycat of other PUA books. In defense of the author; I have to repeat something that a teacher once told me when she graded me on a report that I did on a subject that I had studied very well, simply because I was very fascinated by it. She told me that I must "NEVER" assume that my reader is as knowledgible about my subject as I am. She told me that I must always assume that my reader is new and not yet fully familiar with my topic. Richard "does" cover the basics of the art of pickup but effectively progresses towards offering very powerful infomation, keys that I had not accessed in any other book, and trust me, I have read "many"! Richard wrote this book like an edge of your seat thriller because the futher you go, the more power you are given and the more of it that you want! You can sense it, how the application of these tools can turn you into a "natural" Casanova! The tension mounts because you can see how these things can "definitely" work! I was so exicted when I got to the pages where he gives us what he calls "sexual spikes." This was "exactly" what I wanted! What I "needed" in order to perfect my game! Other books taught me how to build comfort, about the dynamics of attraction, but none explained how to "dramatically" improve my chances of ending up with bare skin slapping against bare skin at the closing phase of each interaction with a beautiful woman! I have gotten really good at the phone number close, but I wanted to master the art of body-merged-with-body close! This book revealed just how!

Enough said. Go purchase this book. It is loaded with truly powerful gifts. Even if you were to borrow it from a library somewhere, trust me, you will want to "own" your own copy. This is the type of book that you cannot wait to dive back into over and over again. Like a great movie in which you pick up something new with every subsequent viewing. It is definitely a book that you will want to dissect thoroughly, underline the points that stick out, take notes from the key chapters, etc.

Personally, I can't wait to go out and put these new wheels to the test! For the "field" is indeed where the rubber meets the road!

Enjoy the game, mis amigos!!!

Pick up material was too mechanical when "the Game" was introduced to the world.Old school is not bad but it was really hard to implement.The method was like learning performing arts,acting,or stand up comedy or show magic stage.Yes,of course the early system was created by Mystery,who used to be illusionist and now he is a pro-pick up artist.Old stuff took a lot of stuff from performing art.Like comedian makes script of routine.It was heavily on routine.

After The game released this routine based method became popular.It has been main stream since "Neil Strauss" released the game.Some people mastered Mystery's method and had good results but some were not.After this book was come into the world.A lot of guys went out night clubs and bars and learned this method.Some tried to improve the method.Some just go back direct method.Direct is not game the numbers game not skills based method.Or just be yourself advice.This be yourself is not good advice.If you are same without improvement,you don't get any.

Richard gives tools to be the best of yourself.He was once rock bottom and now he solved the problem guys may have it.Yes,he is the go to guy because he can teach how to solve problem.Your playboy type friends can not teach his stuff because he learned it unconsciously not consciously.Richard tells step by step process how you can be good with women.

You don't need to learn tons of routines.You learn how to be the attractive man.You will be the attractive man yourself.

Reminder,This information is powerful but if you did not go out and did not use it.You never improve yourself and it takes time to improve.It never happen to you very next day.But this book is the guide to successful man.

Loved the book, great read.
Like his other products from PUA Training this book is full of great stuff.
It begins with a little background on Rich on how he went from zero to hero through trial and error. This book has a systematic approach, from a-z on how to take control of this area in your life. Its worth the price tag. Just buy it!

The first bonus about Social Domination/Social Proof/Naturalness/Engineering Popularity is so powerful, I returned all the other PickUp Products I have purchased and am confident I won't become a keyboard jockey/pick up nerd. The book paid me about $5 hehe. It also probably saved me 2000 fruitless approaches and explains the difference between Night and Day game and how to use them together.

Richard does an incredible job taking you step by step into the the mind of what he calls a "natural". The chapters are layed out logically,and make glaringly simply, the necessary beliefs, steps, and social awareness required for you to literally do what the title claims, effortlessly attract the women you want. As someone who has been around the "community" for some time and knows how much crap there is out there, I can honestly say that Richard's book is both an incredibly enjoyable read and one of the most useful handbooks I have ever come across. It is clear that he has a wealth of working knowledge on the subject and the practice. This might be the only book I have ever read cover to cover in a single day.

The Natural is very likely the next step in learning how to meet girls, get along with said girls, make friends, and improving one's social life. If you've read the Game or any other books on the Pick Up Artist community/phenomenon, they often read very much like kung fu manuals, describing individual steps, but often leaving the process feeling mechanical and prone to failure. Lacking in the exercises and skill needed to make those moves work, these manuals can be difficult to truly incorporate. The Natural makes the complex simple, creating a starting point for a beginner to learn and an intermediate to incorporate their disparate knowledge into a more unified whole.

While this book owes much to it's predecessors in the Pick Up Community, the presentation and mindset behind much of it packages an array concepts and stages into simpler guidelines that take less work to act upon, refining and combining the material of masters past while revealing insights wholly attributable to the author himself. Acting off only the first three chapters can change a night out from being drinking and dancing alone to talking to and meeting new people; with the chapters beyond, chances of going home alone or depressed drop dramatically.

If you lead men into battle, you need a copy of Sun Tzu's Art of War on your shelf.

If you lead men into night clubs, you need a copy of Richard La Ruina's The Natural.

The Natural by Richard La Ruina is effectively copypasta from other generalized theories on attraction ("Pick Up Artistry").
Maybe ~85% is rehash, ~15% original or a twist.
That is not to say that this book is bad. If you are new to this kind of thing, it will get you moving in the right direction.
It's a quick read -- not very inspiring, but there are some good things in it.
I'd try to get it used; not really worth the full price.

Well written, entertaining, and lots of useful information. This book was even better than I had expected. I recommend it to anyone interested in learning more about being comfortable interacting with the opposite sex.

Many of the other reviews claim this book is repeated material and barebones. I ask, did you even read the book?

There is so much fresh material I've never heard of before in here and I've read just about all of the modern seduction material. Many other authors try to teach you at their level and newbies cannot imitate the results.

Richard gives us his backstory and gives us his steps he took at each stage to become who he is. The material is straight to the point, no fluff, just how I like it. He gets rid of all the schemes one might have learned in the "community" over the years and just puts in simple terms a newbie can understand and quickly use immediately after reading the book.

This is easily one of the better newbie seduction books ever written. It doesn't matter if you are direct or indirect with women, his streamlined advice is a intriguing mix of both and I'm eager to test out some of the new things I learned in the book.