The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

Really really fun and very educational. I am no youngster and this book was super. The man and woman should each read separately and then discuss and try out what you learned.
Have fun, we did. The personal reflections and stories of the author added a great background as you felt he really knew his subject.

Learned some anatomy, and uh, it works.

I think every married couple should get this along with their pre-marriage counseling (if you're wise enough to get it).

I thought I knew it all, but I learned some new stuff to.

I would definately purchase from this seller again. This item arrived exactly as presented in a speedy and efficient manner.

While not a manual per say this text is clear and precise in delivering it's message. I look forward to implementing some of the things I have learned from reading it.

The author does a good job of describing (@ great length ) how wonderful & intense providing oral sex to a female partner can be, & recognizing this may be difficult to accept for both parties involved, focusing only on oral gratification to reach intimate sexual satisfaction provides a very limited
view of providing sexual satisfaction. Having spent many years researching & experimenting with sexual response, I've come to believe that true sexual fulfillment can be achieved in a variety of ways, and for most recipients, is more enjoyable if a variety of methods are employed.Limiting one's activity to performing oral sex is to deny other forms of stimulation to reach what is the best form of our physical expression of love.

Ian Kerner presents a witty and educational road-map to a healthy and exciting sex life. If more first time lovers read this book before clumsily initiating their first sexual experience, there would be a decidedly more happy female population.

The author does a good job of describing (@ great length ) how wonderful & intense providing oral sex to a female partner can be, & recognizing this may be difficult to accept for both parties involved, focusing only on oral gratification to reach intimate sexual satisfaction provides a very limited
view of providing sexual satisfaction. Having spent many years researching & experimenting with sexual response, I've come to believe that true sexual fulfillment can be achieved in a variety of ways, and for most recipients, is more enjoyable if a variety of methods are employed.Limiting one's activity to performing oral sex is to deny other forms of stimulation to reach what is the best form of our physical expression of love.

Ian Kerner presents a witty and educational road-map to a healthy and exciting sex life. If more first time lovers read this book before clumsily initiating their first sexual experience, there would be a decidedly more happy female population.

Informational, prescriptive, helpful, and written for men. I thought it better than another book on the subject I read, 'The Clitoral Truth', which had more history and anatomical detail, but more New Age feel-goodism than the practical advice in 'Make Her Come'.

Husbands, BUY THIS BOOK! Don't tell your wives, just buy this book and read it! Wives, BUY THIS BOOK for your husbands! It's well written, proper, and inspirational. If you think you know how to please your soulmate, this will help. If you think you need help, this is the answer! BUY THIS BOOK!

Bought this book to help out my boyfriend who felt a bit 'lost' down there. WOW! He really took this book to heart and impressed me with his new skills. He has only looked through it once but it seems like it was simple for him to follow and gave him confidence to try out new things. He said while he was reading it that it answered questions he didn't even know he had. Ladies, I hope your man is open-minded like mine was because this book can really change things.

The book is pretty straight forward and does what it sets out to do, make your women scream while doing the dirty. The first 1/3rd of the book teaches you about the makeup of the happy zone of the women. I thought it was the most interesting part becuase now when i go there i know what all the parts do and what makes them go crazy. the rest of the book is about the technique you learn, which is pretty good, and not the same for all women as you should know. But it lays down the basics of how to build up tension and antisapation which is the key, it's not how fast you want it to go, but how long you can make her hold out. You do learn the proper postions that she should be in, and like men should know but don't..don't follow what's in xxx movies. Not comofortable for her, but i'll leave the rest for you to read. I read and she was curious about it too, it was great for her before i read the book, and it's awesome for now that i read the book.

Okay, this book is about cunnilingus. The author discusses a woman's anatomy (in the groin area), methods of stimulation, the process of the female sexual response, and techniques/routines you can do to thoroughly please a woman via oral stimulation.

I'm a 22 year old guy who's fairly familiar with cunnilingus, but I must say I've benefited greatly from the wealth of knowledge this book has to offer. It's a fast read (because it's difficult to put down), but you won't be disappointed. I look forward to experimenting with my new knowledge one day...

I highly recommend this book, I would buy it again, and it's really a wonderful, open way to educate men (and some women) about the priority and magnitude of being an expect "cunning linguist"

I am in a new, very committed relationship that will culminate in marriage with the next year. After having been divorced and having experienced a less than stellar love life during my marriage, I decided to try and change MY behavior and outlook on lovemaking. I very much wanted to my my girlfriend as happy as possible, in every possible way, as I could. I am a firm believer in researching something that you don't know. This book was an eye-opener! I thought I "knew" the female anatomy and how it worked. How wrong I was! I told my girlfriend that I had bought this book. She seemed less than enthused. I was dissappointed.

As I read the book I kept telling her how excited I was, literally and figuratively, to discover things about how wonderful woman are built and how their body reacts to stimulus. I asked her several questions regarding her female anatomy and was surprised that she didn't know, either. She was very interested after that and wanted to check out the book. We both discovered that the reason she was not very interested in the subject was because of past, dissappointing, experiences. She didn't think that this part of lovemaking was a big deal. After reading a few sections of the book she became VERY enthused! She realized that she was normal and that her previous partners just did not have a clue as to how to perform this wonderful task, and, that her feelings AND past (bad) experiences were normal. It does not have to be that way. Now, she is very excited for us to try it. Now all I need to do is finish my deployment here in Iraq and make it happen! Oh, the sweet frustration of having to wait!! Thank you VERY much, Mr. Kerner! This is truly the THINKING man's guide. Guys, if you really care about your lady read this book!

Knowing the network this and advanced cunninglings talking about anticipation and core sex really does make for hours of enjoyment for both partners. Highly recommend even if you already think your good you can always be better.

This book has the power to change your intimacy and sex life- you just have to be open to what the author suggests. My husband read the book and I have not, yet. I can tell my husband is implementing A LOT of what the author suggests and our sex life has improved and is more frequent as well as our relationship in general is even more affectionate and intimate than I thought it could be. I know a big part of that is that I have an amazing man/partner who is open to being that way but also this book put everything in a way for him to understand. Any insecurities he had before regarding sex seem to have disappeared. I would highly recommend this book to an open reader.

Well worth them money. I have learned alot so far and I wasn't unfamiliar going in. There are diagrams, but this is not one to look at as a couple to get revved up. It is more academic and educational.

As a source of techniques and information this book is above average.

Lots of information on female genital anatomy, a subject still being discovered in anatomy. (may I also suggest "The Clitoral Truth"?)...and a subject that many men, and women, might need some clarification on.

Great technique information and ideas.

What I don't like about the book is the writing style. Maybe I am wrong (I know, it's happened before) but the book is written in quite flowery prose...lots of metaphoric innuendo. I am a woman, but I tend to think of males as more 'cut the crap, straight up' kind of readers...in fact I'd prefer he not dance around the point, but just get to it in some places....(but maybe that's what cunnilingus is all about...dancing around, to the point of building tension, before getting to the real point...in that case maybe the book is right on, maybe that's why the author is so good at C?)

If I was writing for a male reader, I'd be more exact, and to the point...that's all I'm saying...

As a woman I'd also agree with a few other posters and dispute something he says, about all orgasms being clitoral. There is a belief in Tantra of a "cervical orgasm"...and if you have a partner long enough to hit the top shelf, it blows any other orgasm I've had away...so I have to dispute the "oral is the only way to go" myth.

And the suggestion of oral during menstuation...yuck, yuck, messy, yuck. Only for Vampires, or drunk redneck bikers (no offense to either group).

His writing style is crude, but the content is remarkably spot-on. My wife says my oral skills have improved 200% or more! She used to mostly tolerate my desire to please her orally, but now she comes multiple times from oral during our love-making.