Born to Be Wilde: The Wildes of Lindow Castle

I feel as though I am being disloyal to this great author. I have thoroughly enjoyed her previous books but this one just didn't cut it for me. This book had great potential, I felt it did not concentrate enough on the hero and heroine. Too much dialogue with secondary characters. I had to re-read the first sex scene, it was too sudden, it felt disjointed, hurried and totally disappointing. I couldn't finish this book, sorry!

I was really looking forward to this one, given the frisson and friction between the two in previous books. Not only was the novel disappointing, it seems that James is chasing after TV and losing her style in the process.
My complaints are two: one is that Parth is written as a man of Anglo-Indian descent. I find that a great turn for the genre as a whole, making it less white. But while James talks about his parents and adoption, she shies away from talking about what that would have been like in greater society, about what he may have suffered and experienced. I understand her comment in the afterward of avoiding negative depictions, but I also don't know why she glossed over his Indian background and how that would have made him who he is. Being able to avoid noticing or commenting on race is white privilege, and James uses it here to the detriment of character, story and history. I had hoped for more like the movie "Belle" where the family clearly loves their African descended daughter, but greater society has mixed feelings. I noticed that there was less of Parth's viewpoint overall, compared to other novels, as James avoided not only his race but him altogether.
My second complaint is that there are elements that make it clear that James is hoping the Wildes will become like Julia Quinn's Bridgertons: optioned for TV by Shondaland or some other producer, and is structuring them to increase that likelihood. The copycatting: big loving family, odd naming traditions, successive stories of each getting married off, media scrutiny--combined with changes in James' style: less passion, no animal characters, less historical factoids, less humor--lead me to this conclusion. James stories are usually a delight of unusual elements juggled together to make a story that often makes me snicker and smile. There is none of that here and the novel feels that it is less about our characters and more about the family as a whole: if Ophelia beamed at anyone one more time, I was done.
In short: if you are a fan of James' previous work, there is little of that here and there may be little for the future if she is changing her style to suit TV or other media. I hope not, because I like her unusual blend of elements, but only time will tell.

Generally, I’m down for a good enemies to lovers story, mostly because they’ve usually got a fair amount of fire and angst. It was the reason I was looking forward to this book. Eloisa James did a good job laying the groundwork for this constantly sniping duo over the course of the series’ first two books. The story itself was slightly less exciting.

I feel like I already knew Lavina from her association with the first two heroines. She is lovely, though maybe a bit flighty, and there isn’t a man around who doesn’t want to make her his bride. Well, nobody except for Parth. For some reason, the adopted brother of the Wilde clan treated her with mild disdain and she reciprocated with unflattering nicknames every time she spoke of him. But now, as this story begins, she is ready to propose to him.

I thought that was a bit jarring. Yes, her friend suggested it and Lavina was in a world of financial trouble, but by all accounts, Lavina thought very little of Parth up to this point. It bothered me that she would propose to him right off the bat. Goodness knows, she’d had plenty of other offers before then. Though he says no, as the story progresses, we are led to believe Lavina has acted the way she has toward Parth because she was interested in him all along… and his behavior toward her was motivated by a similar attraction. But I felt that was way, way too convenient and I would have liked to see them going from actually not liking each other to falling in love.

Anyway, not only was Lavina’s mom stealing to pay for their lifestyle, it turns out she’s a drug addict and has to go into a sanitarium. (I didn’t see that one coming.) Lavina’s got to pull herself up by the bootstraps and either make a good match or find a way to earn the money to pay folks back on her own. Her wonderful fashion sense ends up being her financial ticket, but Parth decides to help her find a wealthy husband to boot. He, meanwhile, decides to court an entirely different woman and woo her for marriage.

I had issues. Like I said, I didn’t believe in the idea that these two were always attracted to each other. I didn’t like how Parth backslid on Lavina so late in the game. The black moment felt contrived and the characters should have been beyond that by the point in the book where it happened. And there was this whole thread about Lavina losing weight that was protracted and frequently referenced, only to go absolutely nowhere. I thought that, for sure, as often as it came up it had to mean something. But no.

That’s not to say that it was bad. I was just… underwhelmed. I liked Lavina and her character arc as she really grew to see the value in herself. And I think Parth had a lot of potential. I just don’t think he worked hard enough to win his heroine until the very end… and at times lacked the courage of his conviction when it came to giving his heart and his trust to the relationship.

Not my favorite in this series.

Rating: B-/C+

This is such a fun story with an independent, creative heroine and a slightly grumpy, smoldering hero! Even though there are quite serious issues dealt with, such as addiction, theft, and bankruptcy, Lavinia and Parth have such witty interactions, that I was laughing through most of the book. That isn't to say there weren't some teary moments too, as the couple dealt with misunderstandings between them and their own self-doubts. I really liked the fact that the romance built slowly, since they were both so unsure if they should trust their feelings for each other.

I loved that Lavinia was a strong heroine who found a way to solve her own problems, even though everybody else thought all she had to do was marry a rich man. Parth was great as he tried to fight his feelings, be overprotective, and find Lavinia a husband all at the same time.

The rest of the Wildes were such fun in this story too! Lady Knowe practically steals the show, as we get to see a lot more of her character. Diana plays a big part, and Betsy is just waiting in the wings for her story.

I received an ARC of the book from the author.

Parth may not be a Wilde by birth but in every other way he is, he's a self made man and one of the richest in the country. Lavinia is beautiful and intelligent and is one of the most sot after heiress in London and Paris. After Lavinia discovers her what her mother has done to prevent the ruination of the family Lavinia asks Parth to marry her, unfortunately after she's given him some nicknames like Perfect Parth and Appalling Parth he wasn't very inclined to marry her. Even after Lavinia broke down and explained why Parth merely agreed to help her find a suitable gentleman. Parth has another woman he has his sights set on to be his wife a widowed contessa from Italy. But after what transpired between Lavinia and Parth he can't seem to get Lavinia off his mind and matchmaking, sheesh, it wasn't as easy as he thought it would be, in his mind not even a Norwegian Prince is good enough for her.

The antics of Parth and Lavinia as the circle each other both having feelings for the other but to scared to admit it was quite amusing. As always Eloisa James' active setting is outstanding, from the scenery of the bog to the streets of London she transports you back in time especially with her descriptions of the dresses and such, it's just wow, it feeds the imagination. I love all the quirky characters, Lady Knowe is probably my favorite. Parth and Lavinia I knew as soon as I read their introduction to each other in Wilde in Love, I knew they were perfect for each other I was right they are and this book was their perfect HEA. Honestly and Voluntarily Given

Born to Be Wilde, the third book in The Wildes of Lindow Castle is my favorite. I love The Wilde's series but this one is so captivating that I couldn't put the book down. I have been waiting for Lavinia and Parth's story since Eloisa James introduced them as a secondary characters in the first book of the series.
This book can be read as a stand alone but I recommend to read the first and second books in the series, it will be more enjoyable to know more about Lavinia and Parth before you read their love story.
Lavinia Gray is beautiful, witty and until recently she believed to be an heiress. But when her mother confessed that they don't have any money and has been stealing from her cousin, Lavinia needs to come up with a plan to save her mother and reputation.

The first thing she needs is a rich husband and who better than the appalling Parth Sterling, since she is already infatuated with him and he is one of the richest man in England.

But Parth has already chosen a more suitable bride,one not as reckless and fashion-obsessed as Lavinia.

But when he learns of Lavinia's desperate circumstances, he offers to help her and find her a wealthy husband. But what happen when he can't stop his attraction.................
I highly recommend this fabulous book. It is witty, romantic, delightful, emotional and just perfect.
Can't wait to read the next in this amazing series.
Thank You Eloisa James!

Lavinia finds herself in a terrible situation: her mother has been stealing for years to support a laudanum addiction. When Lavinia finds this out, nearly everything in her world turns upside down. Instead of a lighthearted heiress with men from several countries at her feet, she is now in debt and worried that her mother will go to prison. Her pride takes a real beating, and she battles hard to regain her self-worth.
In the meantime, Parth is trying to take the next logical step in life. It's time to get married, and he is going to do that as logically as he does everything else. The problem is that he can't stop worrying about Lavinia's health and wanting to kiss her. Then it turns out that she is not as vacuous as he had originally supposed. He has to give up his plans if he truly wants her.
The best part of this book is watching Lavinia find her bearings and learn her true worth. She finds a way to solve her problems while helping other people. The second best part was seeing that Parth does have romance in his soul. He said some really beautiful things to Lavinia as the book went along.
I was really glad that North and Diana were in here, too. They had some sigh-worthy moments, and they talked some sense into Lavinia and Parth at key moments. Lady Knowe is wonderful as well. Also, we get the set-up for the next book in the series, and it sounds absolutely terrific!
In summary, this is exactly the type of historical romance I love. The characters are realistic and engaging, I learned a few things as I read, and I closed the book with a sigh and a smile. I highly recommend it!

Eloisa James has created another wonderful addition to The Wildes of Lindow Castle. Parth and Lavinia are two strong willed characters. They mix like oil and water yet the attraction is like metal to magnets.
Parth has been a ward of the Duke since he was a child. He has grown up as another son and yet, he isn't a peer but a businessman. Parth's wealth comes not from inheritance but trade. He owns a lace factory and a bank.
Lavinia is related to two women who are loved by the two older Wilde sons. She was an heiress who had every man wanting to marry her but now she has discovered that her mother is addicted yo laudanum and has spent the families money and even stolen jewels to pay for her addiction.
The book is filled with laughs and tears on the way to the heartwarming Happily Ever After.
I received an advanced copy of this book.

This is the third book in this series that I have read, and I’m beyond hooked, I AM COMPLETELY ADDICTED TO THIS SERIES. I love how this book included Parth even though he is not a Wilde by blood he is a Wilde in every way that matters, and I really hoped that he would be a feature in the series. I love the depth we get to see in Lavinia. Having access to her internal vulnerability and seeing that she was more than bonnets and lace made her more relatable and human. I love historic fashions from all eras so reading about looms, silk, and lace was a real treat for me. Add all of those things together and you have this book which is now my favorite in the series. I am now eagerly waiting for the release of the next book in the series to see how this author feeds my new addiction to this family.

I have been enjoying the Wildes of Lindlow Castle, so I'm a bit surprised that this release slipped past my notice. Luckily, I snagged an audio copy from the library so I could squeeze it in because I was absolutely salivating over that cover!

So our hero of this installment is Parth Sterling... not a Wilde, but a close family friend that has been sort of adopted by the boisterous Wilde family. While Parth is not really of noble blood, he is rich as Croesus and that, combined with his close relationship to the Wildes, mean that he is accepted by the bon ton. Parth owns a very popular bank, among many other endeavors, including a lace factory! I enjoyed Parth and his confused feelings about our heroine. I had fun watching him figure things out and realize that his carefully laid plans were not going to go quite as he thought.

Our heroine is Lavinia Gray, whom you probably remember from earlier books. Unfortunately for Lavinia, her mother has become an addict, thief and spendthrift. Lavinia finds herself in the very difficult situation of having no dowry, and a mother that could possibly face criminal consequences if her shortcomings became known. So Lavinia must find a rich and important husband tout suite! I liked Lavinia quite a bit as well. She was a fashionista that had a talent for helping others with couture, and I enjoyed that aspect of her character. I was a bit surprised that she wasn't more angry towards her mother, who really made a muddle of so many things.

The relationship between Parth and Lavinia built at a good pace. There were some misunderstandings between the two that got my goat sometimes, but it all worked out in the end. Watching the push and pull as Parth began to realize his feelings was entertaining. And there was undeniable chemistry between the couple.

I believe we have met our next hero in this book, a broken and broody veteran. I am looking forward to seeing what Eloisa has in store for us next.

Romance perfection can be found within the pages of Born to be Wilde. It’s rocky, silly, snarky, romantic, fun, surprising and engaging, but at all times, entertaining. I knew the relationship between Parth and Lavinia was strained because of the previous books, but to finally get to know why? Priceless and well worth the wait.

The title of the book isn’t based on the song by Steppenwolf but is actually a pointed clue about Parth’s life. The explanation and the story telling that showed me all about it tugged at my heartstrings. When I finally ‘got it’, I was overcome with a reaction I usually reserve for a cute, cuddly puppy that needs reassurance – Awwwwww!

The sparks that fly between Lavinia and Parth, their misunderstandings and assumptions that complicate any attempt at a relationship, all worked to create a dynamically difficult and emotional trial between the two, akin to running the gauntlet. Watching them fall in love in spite of all of that made for excellent reading.

The wedding between Diana and Lord Roland Northbridge Wilde is in the background throughout this novel and culminated in the HEA that I’d been waiting for since I read Too Wilde to Wed. It was wonderful to witness because both Parth and Lavinia were involved too. It was a brilliant wrap-up to add to the fun of this current novel.

The epilogue gave me happy sniffles. If I thought the book was romantic before, the author outdid herself with Lavinia’s final presentation to Parth. It was the most compassionate, convincing, tender and affectionate proof of Lavinia’s complete and pure love for Parth and it made me tear up. This book was a really good read but that scene boosted it up to a whole other level of awesomeness.

Once again, Ms. James set the hook for her next novel. The intense scene regarding Lord Jeremy earlier in the book was a shocker. He’s the epitome of a tortured hero and that was reinforced with his interaction between himself and Becky Wilde. What happened to him that was so bad that it affected him that way? And how in the world would Becky help him? What will she have to do to get through to him? It boggles the mind and creates a craving to read the next book in the series.

So far, every single book has been a winner in this series and Born to be Wilde is no exception. It’s a story too good to miss with characters I would love to know in real life. Fans of the Wilde family are in for a treat. There’s never a dull moment even when I get to meet the most adorable Queen of the Fairies and her court. Wilde antics are the best!

originally posted at long and short reviews

The attraction between socialite Lavinia Gray and business man Parth Sterling has been sizzling since the first book in the Wilde series. The couple bickers constantly. Parth believes that Lavinia is a vapid socialite who collects bonnets; while she tells Parth he is rude and calls him “appalling Parth”. Even though Parth and Lavinia claim they don’t like each other-they can’t stay away from each other.
Lavinia has discovered that her mother has stolen her inheritance. Lady Gray spent the dowry and took Lavinia’s jewelry and her niece Diana’s emeralds sold them and replaced them with copies. Lavinia decides to marry a wealthy man and proposes to Parth who turns her down flat. However, he does offer to find her a husband! This well- written scene had me laughing out loud and drew me into the novel.
Lavinia eye for color, fabric and fashion earns her a paying job at Felton’s fabric shop. Lavinia has been tasked with designing the future Duchess of Lindow’s wedding gown and trousseau and the gowns for the entire Wilde family. Lavinia becomes immersed in her job designing and sewing the gowns needed for North and Diana’s wedding. She is able to repay some of her mother’s debts. Parth‘s feelings toward Lavinia change when he acknowledges Lavinia’s talent as a designer and his desire for her. I adored the scene when Parth brings Lavinia to the castle’s solar. This scene is touching, emotional and perfectly written.
Eloisa James weaves several important themes in Borne to be Wilde. She carefully balances Lavinia’s desire to earn her own dowry and payback her mother’s creditors with Parth’s overwhelming desire to solve her financial issues. Ms. James also weaves in Lady Gray’s addiction to laudanum, Lord Jeremy’s PSTD and North and Diana’s wedding into the plot. I adored all of the characters in the novel; especially the pragmatic Lady Knowe.
Eloisa James has written a fabulous romance; it’s emotional, poignant and the dialogue is fabulous. This romance captivated me because it was so much fun to see this couple fall in deeply in love! I adore Ms. James’ epilogues and this one was perfect especially the last sentence!

This is a wonderfully entertaining and romantic book. It is excellently written, well plotted and filled with wonderfully lovable and relatable characters. Now, the Wilde’s seem a little over the top, but they are such a joyful, happy family. This is the first book I have read in the series and I had absolutely no trouble at all keeping up. However, I can say that reading this one just made me want to go back and read the earlier books.

The hero and heroine from the second book are heavily featured in this book and they are a delight. I definitely want to go back and read their story.

Lady Lavinia Gray is the toast of London – a diamond of the first water. She is a rich heiress and receives proposals on a daily basis. Well – except she isn’t a rich heiress anymore. Her mother has not only lost Lavinia’s dowry, she’s stolen from friends and family to support an addiction to laudanum. Lavinia is desperate! Somehow she has to find the money to repay the friends and family her mother stole from, she also has to find someone powerful enough to keep her mother from going to jail. She has but one choice – marry a powerful and rich man.

Parth Sterling is obscenely rich, a much-loved ward of the Wilde’s and a fixer of problems. Imagine his shock when Lady Lavinia Gray appears at his door one evening and proposes marriage. Why in the world would she be there? While she smiles at and charms everyone else she meets, she derides him and calls him names. Heaven help him – he likes it – but he’ll never admit that. So, he very promptly refuses her offer and she flees his lodgings quickly.

Parth has already found the woman he intends to marry. An Italian countess who is bright, funny, beautiful, and she certainly doesn’t need his money. They will have a companionable, amicable marriage. He certainly has no desire to saddle himself with a termagant like Lavinia Gray.

Parth decides to help her find a husband and, to his dismay, is very successful at it. He introduces her to a Norwegian prince – and the prince immediately falls head-over-heels for Lavinia. Lavinia really wants Parth, she’s always wanted him, but every time she’s around him she’s tongue-tied and can’t think of anything to say that isn’t an insult. However, she may have to let him go and marry the prince instead.

It is a fun romp to watch these two dance around each other. Each wants the other, but neither is able to own up to it. Throw a wedding for North and Diana in the mix and things are busy and about as mixed up as they can get.

I can highly recommend this fun read and I’m really looking forward to going back and reading the previous books in the series.

"I requested and received this e-book at no cost to me and volunteered to read it; my review is my honest opinion and given without any influence by the author or publisher."

This was fun! I knew that I would have to read Parth and Lavinia's story just as soon as I knew that it was scheduled for release. This is the third book in the Wildes of Lindow Castle series which could be read as a stand alone although I think that it really would work best if the series is read in order since a lot of this story is set up in the previous installment. I went into this book with some pretty high expectations and I am happy to report that they were met. I really enjoyed my time reading about these wonderful characters.

This is Parth and Lavinia's story. Parth became a part of the Wilde family as a young child when his family died. He had done very well for himself and is a very successful businessman. Lavinia is good friends with Diana, North's soon to be wife, and grew up with Willa, who is married to Alaric. When Lavinia learns that her family is almost out of money, she realizes that she needs to marry soon and marry well. She asks Parth to marry her but is promptly turned down.

I loved both of these characters. Lavinia was so determined to make things right. She knew that her skills were somewhat limited but she was able to use those skills to start making her own money and took a lot of pride in her work. I really loved watching Lavinia find out for herself exactly how capable she really was. Parth was a great character as well. Despite the fact that he is not biologically a Wilde, he knows that he is a part of the family. His business pursuits are important to him but not more important than the people he cares about.

I had such a good time watching these two come together. They were both attracted to each other and I thought that they had some great chemistry. Their personalities fit together very well. They were both very intelligent people that took responsibility very seriously. I actually enjoyed their dates with other individuals and thought that each of those dates just proved how perfect these two were for each other.

I would recommend this book to fans of historical romance. I found this book to be a delightful read full of wonderful characters and a few more serious topics. I cannot wait to read more from Eloisa James in the future.

I received a digital review copy of this book from Avon Books via Edelweiss.

Born To Be Wilde is true to form Eloisa James, with lots of of tongue in cheek humour thrown in to keep the tone light, and subtle social commentary to make readers think.
There is plenty to think about in this delightful novel as Lavinia, gently born but, as it happens, also the daughter of a laudanum addict and a thief, tries desperately to repay her friends and acquaintances for her mother’s perfidy.
Society’s double standards are clearly exposed in this novel. While Lavinia’s talent for fashioning just the right outfit out of just the right fabrics is earning her the commissions she so desperately needs to make reparation for her mother’s sins, the fact that she is earning commissions for her insight is something that her love interest Parth Sterling, who has made his fortune from trade, struggles to accept.
Social commentary aside, this novel demonstrates Eloisa James’ talent for setting the scene with just a few brush strokes of narrative. Parth’s delight in Lavinia’s body is succinctly encapsulated in his thoughts while making love to her, “She tasted like honey and spice, like brandy and excitement.” There is also plenty there to demonstrate his love of her brain and every other part of the person that is Lavinia.
In describing the Wilde family Eloisa James is equally succinct, “... the Wildes could always be heard if they were gathered nearby, like a parliament of squawking ravens, ...”
There is plenty about this novel which might have me waxing lyrical for quite some time, but ultimately what I like about Eloisa James’ books is that they are thoroughly entertaining. This is an author at the top of her game, confident that when she makes a joke or an aside or some sort of comment on society at large her readers will get it. We’ll laugh and nod and smile along with her, and we’ll happily go back and reread her work because we know it will be just as enlivening second time around as it was on the first read.

Where to begin with Born to be Wilde? I loved this story. I loved the last book, but I think with this series they have gotten better and better. At the end of Too Wilde to Wed we got a hint of what was going on with the story. We find out that Lavinia Gray and her mother are destitute. So, Lavinia needs to come with a plan to secure the two of them. In Born to be Wilde, we see Lavinia put the plan in motion. It starts off as an epic fail. EPIC! However, Parth is willing to help Lavinia find a wealthy husband. That's when it starts to get interesting.

Okay, Parth and Lavinia have a strain friendship. They seem to rub one another the wrong way. However, as the story develops it's not that don't like each, but more they are trying to hide their feelings for one another. I love these two characters. They bring out the worst and the best out of each of each other. We watch Lavinia's character grow so much in this story, because she's force to learn about her inner strength. Parth has to go through some changes to; I mean he has to channel his love for Lavinia not come out as disdain. So, it's a lot of fun to watch these.

Anyway, LOVED Born to be Wilde, and I can't wait for the next book. Seriously, you get a little tease at the end of the story, and my mouth was agape. Even without the tidbit on what's to happen it's a fantastic book. Those who have loved the previous books are still going to love the next installment. You can start this book without starting with the first book, but there are a lot of characters that are involve with this story. Plus, you don't want to miss out on the previous books.

Copy provided by Avon via Edelweiss.

Pager turner. Heartfelt. Determination. Understanding.

Last we left our heroine with the dilemma of her mother's actions. Now, we open the door on her making a small sacrifice to make things right. She not just working to make things right for herself but for those around her that have been affected by the action of one. She finds that she must marry and marry someone with lots of clout and money. She finds that the one man she wanted nothing to do with, or so she thought. Is the man she goes to for help. Parth in deed is a very wealthy man. He also has a family with enough money and power of there own to make things happen. Parth finds that he is very much inclined to help Ms. Lavina find herself a wealthy husband. He presents her with a prince.

Again we are present with a host of character and a very charming plot line. This one his closer to the current sign of the times than most historical romance that I have read. I actually enjoyed it very much. You get to see how family deals with one family members problems. You also see how family stick with family. We get to meet new faces, new friends, and a new future.

Eloise James always give me a good story to read. I love watching her characters come to life. I love watching the story unfold. I may not always love the outcome. I do love the stories. She finds a way to master the historical and make it feel current.

I didn't have the heart to give this three stars. Maybe three and a half it was possible but it wasn't and I really like this author. A lot so I had to go with the four. I liked Lavina, more than the other two heroines in the preceeding, two books so it is great to have her story, finally. However, there were a few silly, repetitive things that had to go, in the book from the constant mentioning of the dead brother, to the heroine stating over and over that line about her really liking bonnets!! One more time I was going to scream! I mean, come on!! Yes, sorry but she was superficial and no, she didn't come off as smart at all. I was okay with the hero I guess but the beard thing? Not sure I was feeling that and I just couldn't connect with him too much. Really, no personality it seemed. I thought North was much funnier.
Major issue for me, was a little too much family. Thankfully, not much with the kids like in North's story. This author clearly loves kids but still, way too much family involvement. I was really sick of the Aunt especially and all of the family. Way too invasive and in their business. Diana came off as a silly twit in this and I wasn't crazy about her in her book. Way too much Diana. Again, sick of hearing about the dead brother too. Is he going to come back and be alive? I don't know why I have this feeling...….However, as usual, the story was great. Couldn't put it down.

Another wonderful book in The Wildes of Lindow Castle series! I adore the Wilde family and this series. I loved this book. I am all in with this series and this third book is my favorite to date. This can be read as a standalone, but I believe it will be especially fulfilling for readers who have read the previous two books in the series.

One thing I truly enjoyed about this book was the inclusion of some serious topics, including addiction and PTSD, in a way that added to the story and the characters without being the main emphasis. Secondary characters were a bonus to this book. Since it is a series, there are glimpses of familiar characters as well as set ups for future books, yet it all felt organic and did not distract from this story or this couple.

And this couple and their story is so strong and appealing. Lavinia and Parth are wonderful. Strong and appealing as individuals, they are ferociously perfect as a couple. Each starts as likable, and neither has huge flaws or issues, yet they grow so much during this book's journey.

The Wilde family are truly exceptional and I don't know how I will ever get enough of them. Lindow Castle is a fictional place I want to visit. I think the cover and step back of this book is magnificent, and this story inside l lived up to the promise. I highly recommend this historical romance.

Do not pick up an Eloisa James book expecting to find a meek, retiring miss inside. Or at least, don’t expect her to stay meek and retiring long.

What I love about my favorite Eloisa James’ women is that they seize control—they are creative and resourceful and see a way out of their constraints that’s in the end fulfilling to them as characters and also perfectly satisfying in a HEA way.

That’s what we get with Lavinia Gray in Born to be Wilde, the third, and my favorite thus far, in James’ Wildes of Lindow Castle series. Lavinia has learned that her exacting mother has been stealing from various young women in their lives in order to fund a laudanum habit. Not only does Lavinia no longer have a dowry; she has to face the consequences of her mother’s actions on the two of them and also on the women who have been stolen from. As a result, at the beginning of the novel Lavinia finds herself doing something unexpected: proposing to Parth Starling, the richest man in England and the man she has teased unmercifully in a (successful) bid to draw a response from him.

Parth says no. He has a different woman in mind, an Italian countess, and he’s always looked on Lavinia as someone who is extremely beautiful, but also maddeningly flip and frivolous. But he does offer to help Lavinia find a suitable husband who will keep her in bonnets and all the fripperies to which she is accustomed (I’m taking on Parth’s voice here). The will-they-or-won’t-they is of course the most important of their romance story, but tied up in that is the question of whether Parth can respect a woman like Lavinia. He’s a serious businessman and he cannot seem to understand her interest in fashion.

This book is about acceptance and love on multiple levels, and as always, James writes those levels beautifully. She’s a master at writing ensembles: her characters live and move through worlds that are lovingly and thoughtfully rendered (James is also an English Lit. professor!), and among loved ones whose love stories we’ve read before and treasured. James' writing, is like her characters themselves, sophisticated. But for all that sophistication, James also writes with heart, and her HEA are always swoon-worthy, particularly in the case of Born to be Wilde.

This is the third book in the Wilde series. It features Parth and Lavinia. Both were in the
first book, Lavinia was also in the second book. Borne to be Wilde, starts right after the ending of Too Wilde to Wed. Having read the two books in the series already, I loved this book. I had been looking forward to these characters having their own story. There is also a wealth of secondary characters that are interesting, well written and who add to the story. Fashion plays a part as well which is something I love being discussed in a romance novel. Even though this is a third book of a series, it would stand on its own. (But read the series) I won this book as part of a giveaway, there was no exception of review.

was really looking forward to this one - I was so intrigued by Parth in book 1 & 2, but ended up more drawn to Lavinia. I knew that she wasn't as frivolous and shallow as Parth saw her originally, but this really explored the way her love of fashion and fabrics was actually a passion, talent, and cultivated skill. After her mother's laudanum addiction left her without a dowry or, well, anything, she managed to turn her passion into a commission. I loved how dedicated she was and how hard she worked alongside the seamstresses.

I also loved that the woman Parth planned to marry turned out to be someone Lavinia genuinely liked, instead of some woman vs. woman battle. Their interactions, along with Lavinia and Diana's, were lovely, but I did miss Willa and Lavinia's friendship.

Parth and Lavinia have always had an adversarial relationship up until this book. We knew they were obsessed with each other and called each other names like children, but this book revealed that Parth's jabs cut Lavinia deeply because of her low self-esteem, which was actually really interesting to me. She would throw barbs and he would jab back, but the things he said about her were things she actually believed about herself, so they affected her a lot.

The pacing was a little off at times, slow to develop sometimes and rushed in others. My main complaint, though, is that Parth's background seems almost insignificant. Parth is half-Indian, but grew up in England and was raised by the Wilde family from age 5. The author includes a note about how there were many, many half-Indian children growing up in England at the time, so I get that she didn't want him to seem different. But, he was just like the other Wildes. There was no mention of boys at Eton treating him differently because of his heritage, no adjusting to English culture, no foods or customs he missed from home. I get that he was very young when he arrived in England and very much a part of the Wilde family, so maybe that's realistic, but it seemed like a cop-out. Like a way to say the book has a diverse cast but really just having a "golden-skinned" Englishman.

Overall, I did really enjoy it but I think book 2 was stronger. Maybe that's because North and Diana's relationship and wedding was still such a big part of this book, too.

I have a confession to make: I am Wildely in love with Parth Sterling. If I lived in the Wilde-rness (aka Wilde-world) I would be a total Parth fangirl. I would own any and every Wildely inappropriate print he was featured in. In fact, I’m mildly jealous of Lavinia.

OH MY STARS ? If you’ve read the other Wilde books, this is the best one yet. If you haven’t: this is a fantastic enemies to lovers story, basically the billionaire and the recently paupered lady. There are fantastic twists and turns, and I was left crying, laughing, and sighing throughout. This lush Georgian world set on the edge of a bog sucks you in and won’t let you go, just like Lindow Moss would if you went wandering in it.

This is my favorite of the three Wilde books so far. It made me smile and tear up a little bit, especially near the end.

I usually love the heroes more than the heroines in my favorite books, but in Born to be Wilde, I prefer Lavinia. Her journey to self-actualization is fascinating and I couldn’t help but cheer her on.

Parth is a typical arrogant male with his reluctance to admit his feelings for Lavinia. I liked that he’s great with his friends and was indulgent with Lady Knowe. I also appreciated his growth from Appalling Parth to Perfect Parth.

He made me laugh with this line:

“Damn, I wonder if other men realize how effective this smoldering business is.”

And, he also made me cry with his grand gesture: (from Lavinia’s POV).

“Like snow and love. Because it turned out that love had a scent. It smelled of fresh wood, of bolts of silk and wool, of boxes of buttons.”

EJ is hitting her stride with this series. The Wildes are an immensely enjoyable family and I cannot wait to read Betsy and Jeremy’s story.

I had read and enjoyed the other two books, so this was definitely a story I was excited for.

I loved Lavinia in the other stories. In this book, we learn there’s a lot more going on and instead of her previous cheerfulness, she’s tired and worn down. Yes, it makes sense in the plot of this story; however, with the incessant descriptions of her losing weight, having dark circles under her eyes, and never eating, I fully expected her to have a terminal illness. Parth was just as I expected: stoic, cocky, and constantly speaks before he thinks.

Plot wise it’s all about Diana’s wedding. There is a lot of push and pull and an entire thread with a countess that didn’t make any sense. I loved the entire family being together and Lavinia choosing what she wanted instead of being told.

Overall, it was a good story and I enjoy these characters, but something kept me from loving it, as I expected to.

**Huge thanks to Avon Books for providing the arc free of charge**

BORN TO BE WILDE by Eloisa James is book Three in The Wildes of Lindow Castle Series. This is the story of Lavinia Gray and Parth Sterling. I have read the previous books (and Loved them!) but feel this can easily be a standalone book.
Lavinia and Parth have known each other for years and both seem to have dislike for the other one. Lavinia has bad nicknames for him and Parth thinks she is frivolous with her spending. Lavinia mother takes her to France but now a few years later Lavinia returns to London. Things have changed though, Lavinia mother has been stealing from her friends. This has put Lavinia in a place where she needs money and will marry to do so. Thinking Parth would be the answer to what she needs, she asked him to marry her. But he said not but later offered to help her. But their feelings start changing and their love for each other starts growing.
I started reading this book and could not put it down until I was done. Loved it as I do all of Ms. Jame's books!

For the past three months, I have thought about this book every single day.

I am not exaggerating.

Eloisa James is arguably my favorite author and I’ve thoroughly enjoy both of her Wilde books so far. Yet, throughout the two books, I salivated at every scene that featured Lavinia and Parth—their bickering made the series for me. Needless to say I was very, very, very excited for this book.

So last night, at nine pm (I live on the West Coast), when the book popped up on my Kindle homepage I screamed. I sounded like a sixth grade girl at the release of a Justin Bieber album. I promptly ignored the entire world (including my ten friends at my house for Bachelorette night) and started reading.

This book thoroughly met my expectations. I’ve already read it twice. It gave me all of the warm and fuzzy feelings and at least five day dreams. Watching Lavinia and Parth dance around their feelings touched my little heart.

This book was much darker than I excepted. Lavinia is dealing with her mom who, in the depths of an opioid addiction, squandered Lavinia’s dowry and stole from their friends. At the beginning of the book, Lavinia asks Parth to marry her out of desperation. Of course, she also asks due to her lingering infatuation—all of those insults she flung around for the past two books were really just a product of her inability to express her feelings. A very relatable issue to be honest.

Parth doesn’t know what to do with Lavinia after discovering her circumstances. He promises to help find her an adequate spouse but the more time he spends around Lavinia he begins to recognize her intelligence, her acute business acumen, and gains respect for her passion for fashion. She is not at the shallow vain girl that he once pegged her as.

This book is a gradual burn: lust is not conflated with love and there are very few sexy time scenes. In some ways, the book is less about Parth and Lavinia’s romance and more about Lavinia’s journey to find her confidence and self-worth. Born to be Wilde did not wallow in angst, but it is not a cheery read either. If you come into this book excepting 300 pages of silly flirtation and hurling insults (essentially Parth and Lavinia’s relationship in the previous two books), you will be disappointed. The reality of Lavinia’s situation is grim, and Eloisa James does not sugarcoat. However, the serious tone of the book fits the plot and definitely brings new depth to the characters we first met in Wilde in Love. And as someone who loves cutesy romances I actually believe the book is all the stronger for its serious tone.

I truly believe this is one of Eloisa James’ best books. While her writing is always superb, I don’t always like James’ characters. I loved Parth: his dedication to the Wildes, his confidence, and his sardonic humor. However, this is Lavinia’s book. Her quiet strength, ambition, and grab-the-bull-by-its-horns approach to life made her one of my favorite romance heroines of all time.

While this book can definitely be read as a standalone, I would highly recommend reading the previous two books in the series so you can gain a sense of Parth and Lavinia’s relationship before this book.

This book simply amazing. It has earned a spot on my all times favs shelf.

Rating: 5/5

Check out my blog “Sunflowers and Romance!” for more reviews!

I love this Wilde series. Spoiled pampered Lavina does not have any actual idea how much dresses, bonnets etc cost. She has been like a dress up doll her whole life. She does seem shallow and without depth and this is one statement that Parth makes but it is true to a certain extent. She lives by the motto that clothes do indeed make the woman. Parth is an Honorary Wilde but definitely blood could not make him any closer to the other Wilde members. There is a lot of love in this family and it shines thru in ever book. There is a real possibility that Parth is truly interested in acquiring someone else like he has amassed his fortune by acquisitions. Lavina has resigned with herself she was and has always attracted and more than a little in love with Parth but its almost too late? A page turner for sure was up all night! A must read. Cant wait for Betsy story is that next?

The Best Wilde Yet!!!
Parth and Lavinia were so much more than the enemies to lovers story I was expecting. The emotional depth, the banter, and the unstoppable force of Lavinia made this installment of the Wildes of Lindow Castle my favorite so far....although that last chapter sure has me excited for Betsy!

A whirlwind of people, places, servants, friends, costumes all spinning into mediocrity! Slogged through the first few chapters and continued on hoping for some flash and sass. None. Resorted to just finish. H and h just didn't click. Three stars is generous for time and effort to put words on the page. James needs to take a few months off and stop these multi-characters stringing us along. The teaser at the end for the billiard players did not work. Forget about waiting for that one.

I've been reading books by Eloisa James for many years and they only get better the more she writes!

To begin with I'll get the legal stuff over, I received a digital ARC of this and am mentioning it as required. I also ordered and received a print copy, this reached me one day late on August 1,2018 but it's now been added to my keeper shelf where it will be available for me to take down and reread whenever I so desire.

Parth and Lavinia's story was one of the best of all the Eloisa James books in my opinion. I do admit to wishing at times that I could whack them both upside the head to try and knock a little sense in their heads as at times they were stubborn and at others they acted very dense. The book held me enthralled and I admit to setting it aside for a bit at times to make it last longer but I still easily finished it within a week. I highly recommend this books along with the previous two in the series and any that may come in the future.

I haven’t read Eloisa James in a long while. I won this copy and quickly realized my mistake! I LOVED the story of Parth and Lavina. So much I’m half way through with Too Wilde to Wed and another one when this one is finished. Her characters are so well written they burrow under your skin and into your heart. I literally could not put down and read well into the early morning. It is a wonderful tale of finding each other’s true feelings, acceptance, overcoming denial and finding trust, truths and love. Pick up this book and you’ll feel the same. I recommend you read them in the correct order though. But, I highly recommend you read them all. Thank you Eloisa James on a job well done!

Lavinia Gray and Parth Sterling trade insults back and forth not realizing how attracted they were to each other. When Lavinia learned she had no money, Parth decided to introduce her to wealthy men but found fault with each one of them. None were good enough for Lavinia. She was helping her friend with her wedding clothing by designing and sewing much of it. Lavinia received commissions from the fabric merchant and dressmaker which she was using to pay on debts incurred by her mother. Parth ridiculed her efforts which hurt her pride. He told her he loved her and wanted to marry her. She loved him but was unsure if she could live with his ridicule.

Borne to be Wilde: Eloisa James: The story of an Anglo-Indian hero (Parth) and Lavinia. So Eloisa is back! I enjoyed this book quite a bit (a solid 3.5 to 4 stars from me). It was really fun to see Lavinia find her passion and the book has extensive details about dress making and sewing- all of which I enjoyed. The hero is a generic rich self-made man. His half-Indianess is completely extraneous to the story. Apart from giving Ms James a diversity check, it does nothing. She starts exploring it a little when Lavinia asks Parth why he has never visited India but never goes into more detail. I was so excited when the character of Elisa was introduced- but alas- again no secondary romance in this story too. Diana is as much an idiot here as she was in the last book (which I hated).

What worries me is the trope repetition. The next book has a cross dressing woman- alcoholic man romance. Both of these have been previously explored, quite brilliantly, by Ms James in Duchess by Night and Taming of a Duke (if you haven't read those- read them, they are 5 star reads)

The Wilde family is big, loud and fun. The men seem to have a hard time admitting when they are in love, but when they do realize it, they hang on with all they have. Parth and Lavinia have known each other for a while, but have always been at odds with each other. Always insulting each other and arguing. So, when Lavinia proposes to Parth, he naturally said he wouldn't marry her, but he would help her find a husband. Parth really tries to help her, but the more he tries, the more he realizes that he wants Lavinia for himself. Lavinia is hiding something from him and he isn't sure if he can convince her to take a chance on him.

I love Parth and Lavinia and I was barely holding it together waiting for this book! It didn’t disappoint! I loved how Lavinia is so passionate about clothes and costuming and she is way more than just a flighty flirt and she demands to be seen that way. Parth is dreamy and incredible and their chemistry is top notch! It’s my favorite of the Wilde books and maybe even my favorite Eloisa James book! There are moments that are a little heart wrenching in the best way! I LOVE all the Shakespeare references and I learned a new joke to tell at parties!

I received a ARC copy of this book and am voluntarily leaving a review.

When the writer knows what they are talking about, an honest review is simple. The writing pulls at your heart...makes you want to fight for love,and will make you not want to put the book down!!! I cant get enough of the characters. The emotion that you can feel through each page. Love that makes your heart want to...re-read...over & over. This is an easy enjoyable read !

Eloisa James is an author that I look forward to reading whenever one of her books comes out. This book, without a doubt, is my favorite of any of them so far. The characters are so well written - very human with their emotions and actions. The epilogue even had me in tears (no spoilers though, just enjoy it for yourself). I also enjoyed the groundwork that's been laid for the next book in the series (Betsy's story).

This book doesn't really feel like a historical in a lot of ways. Both hero and heroine have jobs, and they don't have a lot of trouble finding time alone together. Then it feels like a historical in some unfortunate ways, such as the main characters having trouble communicating and a dowry as a plot point. What saves it is the writing, and the last few chapters where everyone gets their selves together. On the whole not the strongest entry in this series.

I dislike reviews where the entire plot and storyline are spelled out, so I will not do that. What I will do is tell you that, once again, Eloisa James has created a wonderfully engaging tale with real, dynamic characters that immediately capture your heart and imagination. I absolutely adore the Wilde series and look forward to reading more! If you truly love the historical romance genre, you too will adore the Wildes! Grab this book (and also grab the first two in the series) and be prepared to ignore the world while you dive heart first into theirs! <3

OMG, you guys, this series. It gets me right here, every time--and then, before I've even had a chance to really bask in the glow of the current couple's HEA (here, Parth and Lavinia), Ms. James has me all but salivating for the next book to come out. I don't know how she does it.

Okay, I take that back. I know exactly how she does it. Before the book ends (just before the epilogue, here) we get a chapter not from our current hero or heroine's POV, but from a future one (here, Betsy Wilde) that confirms our suspicions that she's going to be a future heroine and who her hero will be (Jeremy!) and gives us just enough of a preview of their story to make us want to read it yesterday...before throwing us right back into Lavinia and Parth's story for an absolutely adorable epilogue with them. But do we have a title? A release date? Not yet. Well played, Ms. James.

But I digress...

Parth and Lavinia's story was just as delightful as I hoped it would be after Ms. James teased their story in the last book ( Too Wilde to Wed ). Secretly attracted to each other, they've each decided that it's a hopeless cause and hidden that attraction behind disdainful nicknames (her) and seeming indifference (him). Until Livinia's situation changes drastically and desperation drives her to make him a shocking proposal...which he naturally shoots down. Oh, but he'll help her find someone else to marry....suuuuuure you will, buddy. (That bit lasts even less time than you think it will going in.)

I really enjoyed some of the places Ms. James took the plot here--addiction, Anglo-Indian relationships, Lavinia's rather ingenious way of solving her money problems on her own--and absolutely adored all of the relationships: Lavinia and Parth, of course, but also Lavinia and Diana, Lavinia and Parth and all of the Wildes, Lavinia and her maid and the seamstresses...each added an extra dimension to the overall story. Coupled with Ms. James's delightful writing (lines like "'I love you.' The words were so deep and true that they must have been engraved on his heart," and "It turned out love had a scent. It smelled of fresh wood, of bolts of silk and wool, of boxes of buttons," got highlighted almost before I finished reading them) they made reading this book an absolute pleasure (and almost allows you to forget about the times that Parth goes above and beyond in being a bit of an alphahole...fortunately, he snaps out of it before long and comes to appreciate the awesomely resourceful and altogether delightful fashionista that is Lavinia.)

Though it could probably work fine as a standalone, reading this book after you've read the first two ( Wilde in Love and Too Wilde to Wed ) will give you a more complete picture of Lavinia's plight, since her closeness to Willa and Diana factors into why she's so desperate to marry ASAP. As a bonus, reading them will also help keep you busy until we find out more about when Besty's story will come out...

Rating: 4 stars / A-

I voluntarily reviewed an Advance Reader Copy of this book.

I love her books! I ordered this one the first day but saved it for the very long airplane and airports visited the end of July. Her stories are well planned and always a little surprising. Her books are always the one I buy ( versus waiting on the library to get it) and I love every second while reading them. She knows how to keep the reader interested. And I love the family stories. Just hate waiting a year or more for the next one!

I really enjoy Born to Be Wilde, this is my favorite one yet. I love the background and the protectiveness of the hero. There were a few diaglois in the book that was so well written that I have th picture/image in my mind as I was reading.
I highly recommend it.

As soon as Parth was introduced in Wilde in Love, I couldn't wait for Lavina and Parth's story to be released. I love that Eloisa took on the challenge of having the Hero be of Anglo-Indian descent.
While I loved Wilde in Love (Book 1), Too Wilde to Wed (Book 2) left me a little disappointed but Borne to Be Wilde has me hooked back on the series. Now I'm looking forward to reading Reluctantly a Lady.

Ms James has done it again. A wonderful story about a Wilde family member. You will want to begin with the first book in this series and continue through. Romance, humor, sorrow, this story has it all. You will love it.

I've been anxiously awaiting the story of Parth and Lavania and Miss James didn't disappoint. Two people who have been at odds for years find common ground. Great love story. You won't be disappointed in this book

I did not buy the ebook from here, but the story was absolutely fantastic!! This is the 3rd book in miss EJ’s Wilde Series, and the books before did a really grey job of leading up to the hero and heroin’s romance! I was anticipating their story, and I wasn’t let down! Hero was swoon worthy, heroine was an everyday woman who I feel many could relate to. It’s been awhile that I’ve read a romance that has put real butterflies in my belly over the love story! Recommend it very highly!

I was so sad to finish this book that I decided to read it again. I went through it the first time in audio and loved it so much that I bought it in print and read it. I am hoping there is another installment of the Wilde's story coming soon. Maybe Lady Betsy???

Born to be Wilde is my favorite book in a series of great books. Lavinia is wonderful and one of the best heroines I’ve read. Parth is her perfect match. Lavinia finds out her mother’s secret addiction and that all their money is gone. I love that they both have a profession, it’s rarely seen that a female is allowed to work. That had to be the best part!! I like how Eloisa James’s books are so family and friends oriented. I can’t wait for the next book!

Lavinia Gray… A dazzling jewel of Georgian Society, she is witty and beautiful and always exquisitely dressed. She’s turned down proposal after proposal and she’s never happened upon a man she could not charm…until she met Parth. Parth Sterling…He is practical, always steady, and (dare I say it?) a little closed-minded at times. He’s also a brilliant business man who has no patience for frivolousness and nonsense. And he deems Lavinia exactly that. Frivolousness and nonsense. The two of them are always bickering, though not without deliciously blatant sexual tension (duh). Much to their mutual dismay (delight) they cannot avoid each other as Lavinia’s cousin is marrying into Parth’s eccentric family.

As it turns out, Lavinia’s mother has gotten her family into a rather crappy situation. The kind of crappy situation that can only be solved by a rich husband. So Lavinia gathers her courage and shows up at Parth’s bedroom door one night to ask him to marry her. And he says no! (the HUMANITY!) He does, however, much to Lavinia’s great mortification, offer to help her find a suitable husband. You can imagine how that goes…

Born to be Wilde had me emotional in a way a book hasn’t been able to do in a long time. I think it’s because Eloisa James is particularly skilled at creating  such rich, realistic and vastly nuanced characters. Especially this time around. Full disclosure, I am a puddle of mush for any enemies to lovers story. But this one in particular actually made my chest physically ache.

Additionally, EJ effortlessly weaves complicated contemporary issues into the story. This is why Eloisa is so fantastic. She doesn’t beat us over the head with anything. But it’s there. What’s also there? Hot, steamy kisses in the rain. Palpable sexual tension that reverberates off the pages and into your skin. This book has everything. All the emotions. All the good, connected sex. And OMG the fashion! Beautiful, to die for fashion…

I received a ARC copy of this book and am voluntarily leaving a review.

When the writer knows what they are talking about, an honest review is simple. The writing pulls at your heart...makes you want to fight for love,and will make you not want to put the book down!!! I cant get enough of the characters. The emotion that you can feel through each page. Love that makes your heart want to...re-read...over & over. This is an easy enjoyable read !

Eloisa James is an author that I look forward to reading whenever one of her books comes out. This book, without a doubt, is my favorite of any of them so far. The characters are so well written - very human with their emotions and actions. The epilogue even had me in tears (no spoilers though, just enjoy it for yourself). I also enjoyed the groundwork that's been laid for the next book in the series (Betsy's story).

This book doesn't really feel like a historical in a lot of ways. Both hero and heroine have jobs, and they don't have a lot of trouble finding time alone together. Then it feels like a historical in some unfortunate ways, such as the main characters having trouble communicating and a dowry as a plot point. What saves it is the writing, and the last few chapters where everyone gets their selves together. On the whole not the strongest entry in this series.

I dislike reviews where the entire plot and storyline are spelled out, so I will not do that. What I will do is tell you that, once again, Eloisa James has created a wonderfully engaging tale with real, dynamic characters that immediately capture your heart and imagination. I absolutely adore the Wilde series and look forward to reading more! If you truly love the historical romance genre, you too will adore the Wildes! Grab this book (and also grab the first two in the series) and be prepared to ignore the world while you dive heart first into theirs! <3

OMG, you guys, this series. It gets me right here, every time--and then, before I've even had a chance to really bask in the glow of the current couple's HEA (here, Parth and Lavinia), Ms. James has me all but salivating for the next book to come out. I don't know how she does it.

Okay, I take that back. I know exactly how she does it. Before the book ends (just before the epilogue, here) we get a chapter not from our current hero or heroine's POV, but from a future one (here, Betsy Wilde) that confirms our suspicions that she's going to be a future heroine and who her hero will be (Jeremy!) and gives us just enough of a preview of their story to make us want to read it yesterday...before throwing us right back into Lavinia and Parth's story for an absolutely adorable epilogue with them. But do we have a title? A release date? Not yet. Well played, Ms. James.

But I digress...

Parth and Lavinia's story was just as delightful as I hoped it would be after Ms. James teased their story in the last book ( Too Wilde to Wed ). Secretly attracted to each other, they've each decided that it's a hopeless cause and hidden that attraction behind disdainful nicknames (her) and seeming indifference (him). Until Livinia's situation changes drastically and desperation drives her to make him a shocking proposal...which he naturally shoots down. Oh, but he'll help her find someone else to marry....suuuuuure you will, buddy. (That bit lasts even less time than you think it will going in.)

I really enjoyed some of the places Ms. James took the plot here--addiction, Anglo-Indian relationships, Lavinia's rather ingenious way of solving her money problems on her own--and absolutely adored all of the relationships: Lavinia and Parth, of course, but also Lavinia and Diana, Lavinia and Parth and all of the Wildes, Lavinia and her maid and the seamstresses...each added an extra dimension to the overall story. Coupled with Ms. James's delightful writing (lines like "'I love you.' The words were so deep and true that they must have been engraved on his heart," and "It turned out love had a scent. It smelled of fresh wood, of bolts of silk and wool, of boxes of buttons," got highlighted almost before I finished reading them) they made reading this book an absolute pleasure (and almost allows you to forget about the times that Parth goes above and beyond in being a bit of an alphahole...fortunately, he snaps out of it before long and comes to appreciate the awesomely resourceful and altogether delightful fashionista that is Lavinia.)

Though it could probably work fine as a standalone, reading this book after you've read the first two ( Wilde in Love and Too Wilde to Wed ) will give you a more complete picture of Lavinia's plight, since her closeness to Willa and Diana factors into why she's so desperate to marry ASAP. As a bonus, reading them will also help keep you busy until we find out more about when Besty's story will come out...

Rating: 4 stars / A-

I voluntarily reviewed an Advance Reader Copy of this book.

I love her books! I ordered this one the first day but saved it for the very long airplane and airports visited the end of July. Her stories are well planned and always a little surprising. Her books are always the one I buy ( versus waiting on the library to get it) and I love every second while reading them. She knows how to keep the reader interested. And I love the family stories. Just hate waiting a year or more for the next one!

I really enjoy Born to Be Wilde, this is my favorite one yet. I love the background and the protectiveness of the hero. There were a few diaglois in the book that was so well written that I have th picture/image in my mind as I was reading.
I highly recommend it.

As soon as Parth was introduced in Wilde in Love, I couldn't wait for Lavina and Parth's story to be released. I love that Eloisa took on the challenge of having the Hero be of Anglo-Indian descent.
While I loved Wilde in Love (Book 1), Too Wilde to Wed (Book 2) left me a little disappointed but Borne to Be Wilde has me hooked back on the series. Now I'm looking forward to reading Reluctantly a Lady.

Ms James has done it again. A wonderful story about a Wilde family member. You will want to begin with the first book in this series and continue through. Romance, humor, sorrow, this story has it all. You will love it.

I've been anxiously awaiting the story of Parth and Lavania and Miss James didn't disappoint. Two people who have been at odds for years find common ground. Great love story. You won't be disappointed in this book

I did not buy the ebook from here, but the story was absolutely fantastic!! This is the 3rd book in miss EJ’s Wilde Series, and the books before did a really grey job of leading up to the hero and heroin’s romance! I was anticipating their story, and I wasn’t let down! Hero was swoon worthy, heroine was an everyday woman who I feel many could relate to. It’s been awhile that I’ve read a romance that has put real butterflies in my belly over the love story! Recommend it very highly!

I was so sad to finish this book that I decided to read it again. I went through it the first time in audio and loved it so much that I bought it in print and read it. I am hoping there is another installment of the Wilde's story coming soon. Maybe Lady Betsy???

Born to be Wilde is my favorite book in a series of great books. Lavinia is wonderful and one of the best heroines I’ve read. Parth is her perfect match. Lavinia finds out her mother’s secret addiction and that all their money is gone. I love that they both have a profession, it’s rarely seen that a female is allowed to work. That had to be the best part!! I like how Eloisa James’s books are so family and friends oriented. I can’t wait for the next book!

I am a big fan of all Eloisa James' books although I admit I would prefer some books to be 'darker'.It was a pleasure to read how a' silly society lady' has inner depths that noone perceives and how deeply hurt she feels to be the object of lust but not respect...As for Parth...how wonderful-and liberating- it is to realise that someone can make lose control!A great read!

I absolutely could not wait for this book to be available and it didn't disappoint. It makes you feel like you have come home for a family reunion and are surrounded by the deepest love. Not only is this a wonderful couple but the historical facts are so very interesting. We are in the middle of an opiod epidemic but we never think about the epidemic of laudanum. With each book I feel like there is no way to improve but Eloisa James continues to amaze.

Parth and Lavinia’s tale delivered everything I hoped for. Her sass and fashion, his smoldering - most importantly a love story that unfolds in a way that feels genuine. Nothing is forced. It feels organic and real. Eloisa James continues to build a world in which this wealthy Georgian era family steals my heart. I find that within all of James’ novels, there is a strong bond within friendships and family members that highlights the story without detracting from the main storyline. You find yourself so endeared to these casts of supporting characters, that you are on pins and needles waiting for the moment their story unfolds within the pages of their own book.

Born to Be Wilde is a gem of historical romance. Lushly descriptive you’ll be submersed into a world that rivals a Baz Luhrmann production. Ooooooooooo the settings and trousseau. Sigh. Divine. This is a beautiful love story that manages to be eloquent and steamy. Issues that are relevant today are tackled respectfully which adds layers of texture to this storyline.

I'm in love with this family the Wildes! Lavinia and Parth couldn't ask for a better couple. It's heartbreaking to read this and know I have to wait forever for this in the series. Did I just wine like a three year old, yes I did I'm sorry but you understand when you read the book that can't put it down until the end I had a wilde time!

When I started reading this, I thought I wasn't going to like Lavinia. She was a bit addicted to fashion. But as I read the book I realized she was just pursuing her passion for fabrics as much as using her eye for fashion! Parth was pretty perfect except he had a habit of jumping to conclusions. Both the H/h wanted a family and a place to fit in, with it taking a bit to realize they had both with the Wildes! Loved the epilogue as well! Thank you for the ARC and the chance to read this story ahead of time!

This book is the third in the Wilde family series. Parth Sterling was sent to the Wildes at the age of five by his parents who were living in India and planned to follow him soon, but ended up getting sick and died along with his young brother. He became a ward of the Wildes, but really he became a member of the family. He had no title so he worked hard in business to make something of himself and became a huge success owning many businesses including a lace factory and creating his own bank. Lucinda Grey is the daughter of a Lord who died some years ago and is being watched over by her mother. She grew up with Willa from the first book and her cousin is Diana from the second book. She was an heiress and has had countless marriage proposals both in England and in Paris until recently when her mother confessed that they were broke and more importantly she has stolen from Willa's accounts when she stayed with them and then she stole Diana's emerald necklace and tiara that Diana was blamed for stealing by her mother and sold them to finance the Paris trip.

Diana tells Lavina to go to Parth and propose marriage. Parth is rich and more importantly a real problem solver who can fix her problem with her mother. He also might not mind that she has no dowry. But it all goes wrong and he turns her down. Then Lavina gets sick with influenza and Parth becomes rather concerned and sits by her bedside for a night and promises to find her a husband since he has figured out that she has no dowry.

While she has been sick she learns that her mother's taking of her laudanum drops has long been an addiction and has become deadly and needs to be dealt with. Lady Knowle, the Duke's sister has her mother placed in a nice home for addicts. Lavina suggests that Diana have a trousseau and the Duke agrees to pay for it. Diana insists that Lavina help her with it and Lady Knowle agrees to go with them in order to organize the family's clothing for Diana's wedding. Before leaving Lavina finds out that Parth plans on asking an Italian countess named Elisa to marry him and her heart is broken because she has been in love with him for years as they have traded barbs and argued over everything.

In London Parth and Lavina meet up at a silk sellers shop where he insults her looks by saying she is pale and skinny and sickly looking and had earlier insisted on her being seen by a doctor. They then share an intense kiss outside of the shop in the rain. Parth still introduces her to a Prince of Norway who is so captivated by her he plans on asking her to marry him when he gets back from Norway. Parth hates him, of course, and doesn't think he's good enough for Lavina. Lavina can't help but like Elisa who is charming and delightful which makes it even harder knowing that the two of them will be married.

While Lavina is going around to the shops putting together Diana's trousseau, she stops at the silk store and Mr. Felton the owner offers her a commission if she buys her silk from him. Now Lavina sees a way to make some money to pay for the emeralds and Willa's account. The other merchants also agree to offer her a commission as well and when one of the ladies of society finds out that she is putting together Diana's trousseau she wants her to put together her trousseau for a commission. Now she may earn money for a dowry.

But Parth is appalled at the idea. Parth also made the comment to North that she is as"shallow as a puddle" and he keeps harping on the fact that she bought a lot of bonnets. He seems to think that she was the reason that there is no dowry, when in fact it was her mother who went through the money. He seems to think the worst of her and not respect her or think much of what she seems to find interesting which is fashion. Or that she can or should make a living doing something with it. But their kisses tell a different story altogether--that they should be with each other. I really adore this series and I have been waiting patiently for Parth and Lavina's story and I wasn't disappointed. Lavina has learned some things over the past three books and grown and Parth has changed a bit too in that he has decided to actually get married. He still overreacts when people get sick due to his parents' death. He also doesn't want to be hurt and guards his heart savagely. Lavina is terrified of losing him so she refuses to tell him about her mother's thefts. You really do wonder if these two will get together because he injures her so badly. This book also sets up the next Wilde book which promises to be even better than the previous three. This was a fantastic novel that keeps you turning the pages as fast as you can until you finish it. I highly recommend this book.

Review by Margot Pelletier

Eloisa James’s Born to be Wilde is the third book in the Wildes of Lindow Castle series. The romance follows the enemies to lovers trope, and though this can be read as a standalone, much of the enemies part of the trope appears to have taken place in the previous books. As much as this is a historical romance, it is also a heartfelt coming of age story.

Lavinia, the heroine, is frivolous and fashionable, and her opinion of herself is in keeping with the era: her worth lies in her wealth and beauty and the ability to make a good match because of those attributes. When her mother is revealed to be a thief and a laudanum addict who has swindled away Lavinia’s dowry, the heroine’s view of herself is thrown into chaos. Lavinia shows herself to be intelligent, caring, and determined to right her mother’s wrongs. What ensues is a breath of fresh, feminist air that I am seeing more often in the genre.

The bulk of the story is focused on a woman discovering her own capabilities, talents, and worth. Lavinia’s arc of character growth over the tale has her figuring out who she is and realising she is worthy of respect and admiration. This is a story about unapologetically and unashamedly being oneself and refusing to lessen oneself for another person, even if that other person is a loved one. The hero has growth of his own to do, and both characters come to see past their previous impressions and judgements of the other.

James’s prose is smooth-flowing and eloquent, and her characters are believable and engaging. There is a bit of anachronism in the tale, but I do not read in the romance genre with a mind toward unerring historical accuracy. I read it for the warmth, humor, and heart that imbues this tale.

Highly recommended for fans of historical romance and particularly for fans of tales about women coming into their own

I received a copy of this title to read and review for Wicked Reads

5 Stars

Born to be Wilde is the third installment of The Wildes of Lindow Castle series, and can be read as a standalone with slight confusion, as there are a few threads tied to previous installments. I don't believe it would be difficult to jump in and read, but the emotional payout would be stronger if the series was read in order.

Instantly addicted, I read the novel from cover-to-cover in one sitting. Angsty love-hate, yummy deliciousness of slow-burn, and the gut-twisting properties of realistic insecurities felt by both narrators.

Lavinia is on the outskirts of the family Wilde, with her cousin marrying into the family. Lavinia's mother was the one who harmed both Willa and Diana, as well as ruining her daughter's future, due to thievery brought on by addiction.

Lavinia no longer feels a part of society, at the same time thinking herself shallow for not realizing how her mother's actions, as well as her own, put her on the path of destruction. In an era where young ladies are brought up in a mindset where their only concerns are nabbing a rich husband, the icing on their cakes is their lifework.

Insecure, ashamed, striving for independence, Lavinia is trying to change herself for the better, settling her mother's debts, while trying to come to terms with how shallow things can change people's confidence. The fashionista will no longer be shamed into finding her life's passion as shallow and unnecessary.

Parth is an orphan, taken in by the Wildes, only he doesn't feel set apart of the large, crazy family. Not blood-related, Parth is a Wilde, feeling it down to his soul that they are family. He's a self-made man, a banker who is respected for his financial advice within parliament. The last thing he wants is a wife who needs him for his money, especially one who throws money away on pretty bonnets.

For years, Parth and Lavinia have a love-hate relationship, their witty repartee creating sparks to fly in every direction. Continually thrust into each other's paths, disagreements abound, insecurities are poked as angry, never-healing wounds, forcing character growth to strengthen Lavinia.

There is an addictive, delicious quality to Eloisa James' writing- pure escapism.

Having read most of the author's backlist, where I have a paperback sitting next to me from one of her first series ready to be read, most books have been hits, with a few misses peppered in. Born to be Wilde is classic Eloisa James, all the qualities and romance that has me coming back. In fact, I'd put this novel at the top of the list as one of my favorites by the author.

Highly recommend to historical romance fans. In fact, I do randomly recommend James to people in my real life who read this genre. This review is me passing out a rec to my online book buds.

Lavinia Gray… A dazzling jewel of Georgian Society, she is witty and beautiful and always exquisitely dressed. She’s turned down proposal after proposal and she’s never happened upon a man she could not charm…until she met Parth. Parth Sterling…He is practical, always steady, and (dare I say it?) a little closed-minded at times. He’s also a brilliant business man who has no patience for frivolousness and nonsense. And he deems Lavinia exactly that. Frivolousness and nonsense. The two of them are always bickering, though not without deliciously blatant sexual tension (duh). Much to their mutual dismay (delight) they cannot avoid each other as Lavinia’s cousin is marrying into Parth’s eccentric family.

As it turns out, Lavinia’s mother has gotten her family into a rather crappy situation. The kind of crappy situation that can only be solved by a rich husband. So Lavinia gathers her courage and shows up at Parth’s bedroom door one night to ask him to marry her. And he says no! (the HUMANITY!) He does, however, much to Lavinia’s great mortification, offer to help her find a suitable husband. You can imagine how that goes…

Born to be Wilde had me emotional in a way a book hasn’t been able to do in a long time. I think it’s because Eloisa James is particularly skilled at creating  such rich, realistic and vastly nuanced characters. Especially this time around. Full disclosure, I am a puddle of mush for any enemies to lovers story. But this one in particular actually made my chest physically ache.

Additionally, EJ effortlessly weaves complicated contemporary issues into the story. This is why Eloisa is so fantastic. She doesn’t beat us over the head with anything. But it’s there. What’s also there? Hot, steamy kisses in the rain. Palpable sexual tension that reverberates off the pages and into your skin. This book has everything. All the emotions. All the good, connected sex. And OMG the fashion! Beautiful, to die for fashion…