The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011

This book is not very complex or demanding of the reader and contains a plethora of common-sense theorems that any thinking man should not go without. Even if you're relationship is already good, this book is very helpful in giving ideas and tips on how to keep it going well and for the man to continue attracting his wife. I was very enthusiastic (and so was my wife) when I learned that the main premise of the book is for the man to improve himself as the primary factor in improving his sex life. When it comes down to it, that is all you can really do and the author is very blunt about it but the axiom makes every tip worth attempting.

I recently began utilizing some of the methods of this book and it has had a very positive effect on my wife; she was always a horny girl but she is 10x hornier now that I've implemented some of the sage wisdom of the book.

My only real complaint about the book would be its structure. It just looks like the author compiled his blog posts into the book, which is OK and works, but it makes the book feel less organized holistically. I'm not sure how the author could have improved on this, but it is something for the new reader to adjust to when they read the book.

Mr. Kay appears to have a thorough knowledge of these subjects he chose to enlighten us about in this novel. Maybe, this confidence in himself is what led to his appearing to be an expert about sex with his wife of many years. While he threw out many ideas of what to do in certain situations he had a very solid foundation to his conjecture that upon valid reasoning appeared to be supported in concrete. That is a good thing. Advise like: lose belly fat, lose more weight (if you're overweight), quit being a "bum" if you don't make much or any money, quit sitting around the house in your downtime and fix something, and feed the fish for a change will only increase your desirability with your wife unless you have already completely blown it or she has already found Casanova.

If you have any respect for yourself or your wife then DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK - IT WILL NOT IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE! It preaches domination, mind games & lies as a way of maintaining a healthy marriage. My husband bought this & we nearly ended up getting divorced. If you don't care about your wife & only want sex, then divorce her without all of the games & find a prostitute. If you do care for your wife & value your marriage then talk to her, there are far better ways to be a better husband, and for your wife to be a better wife. THIS BOOK WILL NOT MAKE YOU HAPPY!
(only gave it one star because you had to rate at least that to review. This book is pure poison and doesn't deserve to be in print)

If you are married happily...read this book. If you are contemplating divorce...read this book. If you are single...read this book. Grab a big grain of salt for some of the parts, but the majority of the book should be required reading for high school students.

It will help men and women in all aspects of life. The author has an uncanny ability to take basic stuff we all kinda know, but present it in such a way as to create numerous "a-ha" moments. Some examples in the book are sex ranking in relationships, the man action plan, alpha vs. beta, and various difference between the sexes.

I'm in a rocky patch right now with my own marriage. The items in this book may not save a thirteen year relationship, but moving forward in life I'll be a better man acting upon many of the suggestions this book puts forward. Where I used to get angry with my wife, I now call her out on her areas ripe for improvement and I shine that light on myself as well. Great read.

This self help book is well written and organized. It is filled with very readable, practical information for married men looking to breathe excitement, energy, and fun into their marriage and their life. The author has a way with words and I have highlighted over 50 different sentences in the book which I enjoyed and have enlightened me. I have used the male action plan (MAP) advice this book has given me in my marriage of 10+ years and have seen awesome results. Book was updated in 2015 with some additional lessons learned from men running the MAP. The author does not have many academic credentials for the topic, but his knowledge of the challenges married men have are excruciatingly accurate and his recommendations are simply put: well crafted brilliance.

Although I think the book was written from the slant of someone with a more healthy relationship foundation, the book helped me in many ways and I'd recommend it. I'd caution men to strive to comprehend the concepts rather than the particulars and to adapt the concepts to their situation. The book is written from an almost anthropological point of view and while X may be true of women in general, there will be much variance in how any given man interprets and applies X. So for example Bob tries to implement X and introduces behavior that seems so out of context to Sally that it she's more confused and hence distracted trying to figure it out then the intended result. There's a lot of good stuff though, and it helped me feel a connection / fellowship with others which raised my spirits. In essence, this book is intelligent "guy talk" for guys that have become so over domesticated they've lost the abilitity to think like a guy.

Married guys, do yourself a huge favor and stop reading these reviews and/or shopping other similar titles. BUY THIS BOOK RIGHT NOW. This is as close as you're going to get to an operator's manual for your wife. Get it. Remember all those little suspicions you had about your wife over the years, all the subtleties you noticed, every single epiphany you ever had about how sex and marriage really work and SHOULD play out? The author, Athol Kay, lays them all out in humorous, sometimes painfully obvious, terms and gives you every tool and technique you need to get the most out of yourself AND your wife. Don't waste any more time, just read it and you will finally understand.

I've read several books on this subject. This one is hands down the best. Note: Part 1 was slightly slow for me. KEEP READING! The rest of the book needs this foundation to make sense.

This books provides excellent insight and balance. Most relationship books tell men to be more of a jerk or to be nicer. This book shows how how to be a "nice guy with a hard edge." It's practical and doable in the world I live.

It helped me understand more about my wife's physical body and why some days she's way more into some things than others.

I've already started doing several things I learned from the book and my wife and I are both happier for it. If you're a man looking for better sex with your wife, I highly suggest this book.

This book along with another book no More Mr. Nice Guy which were recomended to me. I enjoyed this book more for the tips that it provided me about improving myself and my relationship with my wife. If you are looking to improve your relationships and help rekindle a spark that you once had this might be the book for you.

If you are married happily...read this book. If you are contemplating divorce...read this book. If you are single...read this book. Grab a big grain of salt for some of the parts, but the majority of the book should be required reading for high school students.

It will help men and women in all aspects of life. The author has an uncanny ability to take basic stuff we all kinda know, but present it in such a way as to create numerous "a-ha" moments. Some examples in the book are sex ranking in relationships, the man action plan, alpha vs. beta, and various difference between the sexes.

I'm in a rocky patch right now with my own marriage. The items in this book may not save a thirteen year relationship, but moving forward in life I'll be a better man acting upon many of the suggestions this book puts forward. Where I used to get angry with my wife, I now call her out on her areas ripe for improvement and I shine that light on myself as well. Great read.

Loved the book. Insightful and to the point without making it too heavy or graphic. Many good points which i have started using. Any man looking to help his relationship or woman trying to get their man to change get this book! Great read & worth the money!

Prepare to exit the matrix men. This book will OPEN your sleeping eyes! More than just a guide to getting more of the sex and attraction you want from your wife/girlfriend, it's a no holds barred glimpse into the Disney happily ever after MYTH and why it is simply not real. You will have to choose whether to leave the matrix or stay plugged in... But you can't unlearn this valuable information.

The principles in this book literally saved my marriage. Absolutely incredible advice for any relationship. The "MAP" being the male action plan- is so insightful, so brilliant, so SIMPLE, yet makes a tremendous difference in relationships and LIFE in general.

This book really helped me change my perspective on marriage and is so far leading me into a much better place. I've started the MAP and have already seen positive results. I can't wait to see where I'll be both physically, mentally and in my marriage 6 months from now...

...gender relationships in the US are dismal and it's making everyone miserable. A divorce and a lot of soul searching helped me understand that going with the flow of the culture will end in tears - for everyone. Take the red pill, understand how to represent a healthy masculinity and enjoy women again (if you can find one who will own her femininity...that's a different story.)

Every father should teach this to their sons and daughters by example. It should be an engagement gift to sons and future son in-laws. It is priceless. Every man knows this in their gut, but it's been beat out of them. Thank you Mr Kay.

To anyone trying to understand the "mysteries" of female behavior, this book is a great education in relationships! My wife loves the "new me". I highly recommend this book to those guys trying to puzzle through the strange responses they sometimes get from their favorite lady.