Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life

I have never read anything by Jen Hatmaker, but Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life has made me a fan! Her whimsical writing style and bold honesty grabbed me from the beginning of this encouraging book.

Of Mess and Moxie doesn’t hold back as the author addresses the issues many women grapple with every day that bring on those feelings of being overwhelmed and not knowing how to juggle everything that is thrown at us. When nobody seems to understand the struggle to keep in all together, we need a friendly reminder to re-frame our thinking with a healthy (and humorous) perspective, and that is exactly what Jen Hatmaker delivers in this collection of essays.

A Roller Coaster Ride
This book takes your emotions on a roller coaster ride, and I found myself laughing out loud one minute, and welling with tears the next as Jen’s stories resonated with me. She addresses “all the mess” by telling the truth, and “all the moxie” as “telling the truth sets us free.”

The chapters are varied, with lists, recipes, and quotes sprinkled in among the essay like narratives on topics most moms can relate to. The writing style is conversational, funny, and raw at times. This blunt honesty is what makes Of Mess and Moxie so convicting. Jen’s honesty almost gives readers permission to own our feelings and not feel the need to apologize for them. With expectations that women need to have their acts together, there are so many things we are reluctant to admit. This book brings on a sigh of relief as readers realize we are not alone, and that someone else “gets it.”

The publisher provided a review copy of Of Mess and Moxie.

We all need a Christian friend who is different from us. Jen is lively; I am quiet. She is bold; I am reserved. She is wild; I am placid. Yet I love her writing, because it gives me fresh and funny glimpses into a life of faith, along with a huge dose of affirmation.

Jen’s book is an anthem of faith for women of different ages. She writes for the twenty-somethings up through the sixty-somethings and beyond. Jen is transparent and hilarious in her anecdotes; she is powerful and kind in her exhortation. Jen says she has grown through the process of writing several books; I can see that progression from her earlier books, and it is lovely and free.

I am in the middle stage of life, the full-court press where everyone wants a piece of me. I’m trying to pursue my dreams and juggle a million responsibilities. Jen’s book gives me wise perspective, helps me laugh over the brevity and moments of ridiculousness, and even offers a few delicious-looking recipes to give me a hand. Her fun and inspiring book is helping me enjoy these busy, beautiful days.

Jen is like the friend who would invite me over to her slightly messy house and have me laughing and crying before the night was through. I can feel more like myself in the presence of a friend like her.

How this book is changing me:

- I’m learning to accept that this life stage won’t last forever, and I need to enjoy it more.
- I need to make time for creativity without guilt.
- I’m taking a few risks and not beating myself up for my mistakes.

I received a free review copy of Of Mess and Moxie from the BookLook Bloggers program. You will love it!

Of Mess and Moxie is essentially a collection of essays by Jen Hatmaker. The overall theme of the book is that we are all a bit of a mess in one way or another, and we need moxie to get through our life and live free of shame and guilt and self-inflicted condemnation. At least that's the gist of it that I got.

The chapters stand alone fairly well - there isn't a particular flow from one chapter into the next - which is why I called them essays. This does lend itself well to short bursts of reading, just one chapter a night, or each day while waiting to pick up your children from a sports practice, or while hiding in the bathroom with the last ice cream sandwich.

Jen Hatmaker uses her usual brand of sarcasm and humor mixed with encouragement. Reading her books lets you say, "Ah, I'm not alone!" and "Me too!" Of Mess And Moxie isn't any different - especially when you read her four "How To" sections, with sarcastic and ironic how-tos gleaned from other mothers on the internet. It's so good to know I'm not the only one whose kids do that stuff.

I do have to admit that I was expecting something different from this book. I'm not sure what. Maybe more structure and a flow that would outline well and build like a sermon with three points and 9 sub-points. I was encouraged. I smiled and I laughed. I marked a chapter and thought of someone who needed to hear that encouragement. I even marked a chapter to come back and re-read for myself. It just wasn't what I was expecting and I haven't yet figured out what I was expecting.

The book for review is “Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life” by Jen Hatmaker. This book falls in the genre of non fiction, religion, Christian life and Women’s Issues.

Meet our main character Jen Hatmaker, a mother of five and also pastor’s wife. This book dives into her life, her family’s life and how it revolves with her beliefs as a Christian while living in Austin, Texas.

Each chapter dives into topics that are fun for laughs and giggles, especially since this is not our family. Jen ranges from talking about not being stuck into what image you were as a child how it is okay to re-brand yourself , reinvent yourself from who people knew you then. You will learn her joys and downs of motherhood and what it means to be a parent.

Her antidotes of what happens in her life will make you laugh as you read about this child doing this or her doing that. The chapters are full of her theory on how to approach a grocery store shopping, how not to get upset when your child is peeing on an expensive towel at Bath and Beyond, how in everything there is a sprinkle of spirituality that we can learn and grown from.

I told myself I would not read another spiritual book. I have been on a tear of reading these books to read and review. When I started this book, and I was not aware of what kind of book it was exactly, I felt a little down to, “Here I go again,” mood. But as always there will be a chapter I come across that I was meant to read, that was supposed to show me, help me understand and explain things to me in my own life. And soon another chapter did that and another and another. I did enjoy this book. Her quick wit and humor is one I can appreciate and enjoy since that is how my own family is. A good pick up which is light and airy but not only fluff.

I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review.

Y'all need to move over ladies! This Jen Hatmaker girl is MY new best friend. Mine! I have never read a Jen Hatmaker book before (I'll wait here for you to pick your jaw up off the floor), but I've been an avid follower of hers on social media for quite some time. I listened to this book on Audible, since I am my children's personal Uber and it was as if Jen was sitting in the passenger seat with me telling me all of her stories and making me feel less alone. Because I don't know about you, but that's what my best friends do, they fill the spaces of my heart where there are voids, negative self-talk, and emptiness. Jen (I'm on a first name basis with her now) had me laughing, crying, and feeling empowered! I'd recommend this book to ANY mom/wife who needs to feel less alone, uplifted, and a part of a sisterhood. I'm not exaggerating when I say this, but my top 3 books live on my nightstand, mostly gathering dust, but sometimes filling me with positivity when I need it, and THIS book right here, it pushed all my other nightstand dwellers aside and said, "There's a new girl in town!" and she plopped her beautiful Moxie self right on top of the stack. And dear reader, why are you still reading this review? GO GET THIS BOOK!

Jen Hatmaker has a new book out titled Of Mess and Moxie with the tagline of "Wrangling delight out of this wild and glorious life." In this new book, Hatmaker encourages women to go beyond their faults and life a live filled with nerve and determination.

If you are looking for a book that will be highly convicting and motivating, this is not the one. Now, that is not such a bad concept since Hatmaker's writing style is a very conversational and "best-friend" like. She has written a very easy to read book that talks to you like you are enjoying a cup of sweet tea with her as a friend and not so much preaching at you to "do this."

I can't say that I love this book, but I feel that it's fairly good overall. It's extremely easy and quick to read and you have the feeling that Hatmaker can completely relate to the trials and struggles you are facing since she is very transparent and open about those in her life. She even has joke and makes fun of herself a little in this book. She is very real and relatable.

You will laugh, ponder, and even think "me too," while reading this book. Hatmaker shows you that life can and should be good despite all of the twists, turns and sidetracks that will come your way on this crazy journey.

(Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.)

I was excited to read a Jen Hatmaker book. I have been following her on Instagram for some time and since I am done with classes I have more time for pleasure reading. It doesn't feel like much spare time but I am really trying to set aside more reading time for me.
Thank-you Book Look program for sending me this book for free in exchange for an honest review. I was not paid for this review and all opinions expressed are 100% mine.
So the book reads fairly quickly! It is very raw and real which makes it easy for me to relate to the author and her stories. It is reassuring that having it together is never a goal because we need our savior for a reason! Jen makes you laugh and nod your head as she writes with a real passion. Not only does Jen write from a real perspective but as a mother makes me feel encouraged and challenged to do better in every area of life.

I think as a mother I could relate to this book more! Jen has great experiences that she shares which many people would keep private but with her boldness to share it keeps the reader going and helping the reader identify with the reality of needing Jesus more and more!

I would recommend this book to woman/mothers! Get ready to laugh... a few tears... and feel encouraged!

I wasn’t sure how in the world Jen Hatmaker would top her excellent book For the Love, and yet with this beautiful turquoise follow-up, she absolutely did. Of Mess and Moxie has heart, passion, a little bit of mess, and a whole lot of moxie.

I read this book with a pen in my hand and a lump in my throat. So much of what Jen Hatmaker wrote in this book resonated with me. I gleaned so much encouragement from her words, and even though many things she states are not new to me, they are fresh and full of moxie:

I don’t have to be who I was before. It’s never too late to change. It is perfectly fine to live in the world and love the world and yet still be devoted to Christ. It is never, ever too late for me to dream and be creative. Forgiveness is a process that takes a lot of time. Prayer matters. Stand. Tell the truth.

Jen Hatmaker is the friend we all wish we could meet for coffee: funny, snarky, and oh so very real. With her trademark honesty she relates her experiences in the church, in friendships, in family, and on television, with Biblical truths and encouragement for all her sisters around the world. This one’s for the girls, indeed. Moxie on, Jen.

Thanks to HarperCollins for an advance copy to read for review. Part of this review is published as an endorsement of the book, and all words and opinions are my own. I am a member of the launch team for #OfMessandMoxie.

If you are looking for a book of theology filled with doctrine and various forms of Christianese, then I'm sorry to say, this is not the book for you. If you're weary, broken, or wondering if you are the only person on earth that struggles to love God and people, yet desires to do so with your whole heart, then Of Mess and Moxie will be a breath of fresh air.

Of Mess and Moxie is written as an autobiographical faith journey where author Jen Hatmaker shares the good, bad, and the ugly parts of herself in an authentic and hilarious way. Of Mess and Moxie is an anthology of wisdom from an author that you will feel like you know and like. You might even find a new favorite recipe too.

I laughed and cried (often both at the same time) while reading. I would recommend this book to anyone that desires a renewed sense of joy in this life.

"This world is hard and scary, and it is also phenomenal and gorgeous and thrilling and amazing. Reader, there is a middle place, holy ground, where we learn to embrace the fasting and the feast, for both are God-ordained. There is a time to press into sacrifice, restraint, self-denial, deferment. There is also a time to open wide our arms to adventure, laughter, fulfillment, gladness. A Christian in tune with God's whole character neither regards herself as too important or too unworthy to enjoy this life. Yes, we are part of God's plan to heal this world, but we are also sons and daughters in the family. We are not just the distributors of God's abundant mercies but also its recipients."

I received an advanced reader copy from the publisher.

I was excited to read one of Hatmaker's books since I hadn't read any of her books before. She's a funny writer and you feel like you're reading a book by a friend. I loved her sections on homemaking, decorating and parenting. I felt like there was a bit of rambling in the "how to" sections so I just skimmed over them and moved onto the more interesting parts. I was surprised to find recipes mixed into several of the chapters. She's relatable and this book is a quick read. She references and quotes her past books so if you are familiar with her you will recognize those. I appreciated her views on parenting and her advice on the subject. Her line "Let's send them off adored, believed in and treasured" really stuck with me. The last half of the book (Part 3 & 4) were my favorites. I think she makes a great case for family friends, making memories together and making your home a gathering place for everyone. Her supper club tradition is something I'd like to start with my friends and I loved her idea of fangirling real people you encounter every day. Hatmaker seems like a wonderful friend. She gives lots of advice for helping women reach out to other women to build community. I would say it's an overall good book, but some skimming might be required.

Jen Hatmaker speaks directly to the heart of things and what is important in life. She gives you a road map to make decisions and be alright with your decisions. Her backbone has been tested and she has come out of the fire whole, hale and hearty!! Jen has Moxie!!

Jen Hatmaker is raw, open and honest. She doesn’t adhere to the Christian “norm” of presenting herself as perfect or having it all together, all wrapped up with the world’s best marriage and wonderfully behaved children. (Does this drive anyone else bonkers?! Why would anyone want to become a Christian if that’s what Christianity is? Sorry folks, I’m a mess and that’s why I need Jesus. Anyway, I digress.)

In Of Mess and Moxie, Jen takes you through life lessons that she has had to learn, all with unbelievable hilarity. I literally laughed out loud through 90% of the book. Literally guffawed in the middle of my husband’s television show, in the bathroom right after my shower (you gotta read where you can), and once while my son was doing his homework. I was supposed to be helping him. You can imagine his surprise when I ugly laughed (like an ugly cry, only louder and happier) in the middle of his math equation.

Sister Friends, you need to buy this book. For you, for your friends, for your kids’ teachers, for that nice barista, for your bank teller, for your neighbor, for your daughters and your daughters-in-law. We women need to stick together, we need to be real, we need to encourage one another and take on the world by each other’s side, and we need to do it all while laughing embarrassingly loud.

This book is a mixture of serious and funny. So if you like both, you’ll find both here. Jen writes about life and family and school and faith, using personal anecdotes and spiritual insights. She helps you find grace for yourself and encourages you to extend grace to others.

Jen is a fangirl of Jesus. She helps us love God more. She helps us love ourselves more. We all can be a mess, but that’s okay.

Some of my favorite quotes from this book:

“Making your home pretty is nice, but making it nourishing is holy.”

“It is easy to believe God’s pleasure in us hinges on our aggressive defense of the kingdom, when, in fact, He told us repeatedly our chief identifier is how we love.”

“When in doubt, ask yourself: What would love feel like here, to this person?”

“My dream is for a safe church, a wide table, no secondary kid tables. If Jesus made the sanctuary free and available for all, we should too.”

“I possess full confidence in God but a healthy skepticism of the human understanding of God.”

I received a review copy of this book.

LAUGH, CRY, SNORT: Jen Hatmaker has a huge heart for Jesus and for people, and for sharing All the Jesus with All the People. It shines through everything she writes, including this fun//serious/hilarious/instructive/reassuring/come-alongsiding book, Of Mess and Moxie (hereafter, OMAM).

If ‘For the Love’ was a call to love on people, then OMAM is permission to show yourself (and your actual Real Life) a little love, too. It’s the pep talk you need as the kids head back to school (or anytime), it’s the pep talk your younger sister needs, and your older sister, and your mom and grandma, too.

More than a simple “I’m ok, you’re ok,” OMAM reminds us that we can do hard things. That we don’t have to get stuck where we are, or where we were. That our lives don’t have to be - or even look - perfect to be lived well. Whatever stage/mess/season you are in, you will find understanding and humor and grace.

PUT THIS RECIPE ON SPEED DIAL: Buffalo Chicken Dip. Yum. #winning

BONUS: OMAM includes not one but FOUR amazing “How-To” sections! Rejoice and learn how to:

-Ruin your children’s lives (so many options!)
-Grow an award-winning chin hair
-Lose weight on a wine + cookies diet
-Have The Talk with your kids (#expertlevel)
-So much more

FAVE QUOTE: "You don’t have to be who you were.” (p. 5, advanced copy paperback) *** HOW GOOD IS THAT? ***

WHERE IT GETS AWKWARD: The book meanders at times, but I can assure it’s still a fun read. It’s not an espresso shot, to be consumed in one gulp. It’s more of a sip-and-savor latte. Be prepared.

Jen’s personal theology is found throughout the book, obviously. (Imagines authors singing “It’s my book and I’ll theologize if I want to.”).

Chapter 12 detours into full-on sermon mode. In some ways it’s a bit of a surprise, dropped casually and somewhat awkwardly amidst all the ‘Hey Girl’ chattiness. And yet it’s important stuff to think on and talk about within your faith community, family, and friends. Hello, #bookclub!

THE BOTTOM LINE: OMAM is the margarita to your chips and salsa. It is the sweet to your iced tea. It’s the BFF pep talk we should all be so lucky to get, and aren’t we all so lucky to have Jen walking a step ahead (if she’s a step behind you, well then you know just how hilarious it all is!). I hope that, like me, you laugh-until-you cry, you giggle snort, and you highlight all the words.

SUGGESTED WINE PAIRING: A nice Pinot Grigio or a spicy Tempranillo blend, depending on your mood and local weather.
But let’s be real; any wine will do.

I received an advanced review copy of this book.

NO METAPHORS WERE HARMED IN THE MAKING OF THIS REVIEW. I THINK.

Of Mess and Moxie by Jen Hatmaker just released this Tuesday and I wanted to share my thoughts. I'll be 100% honest that I was a skeptic when I picked this particular book. I read Hatmaker's last book, For The Love, and I had mixed feelings about it.

That being said, I enjoyed Of Mess And Moxie. The book was hilarious as is most of her writing to me. She's got a unique sense of humor and I rather like it. I also felt like this book was more cohesive than the last book. The chapters were still varied as far as topics but I felt like they made more sense to me.

I also enjoyed the realness and raw nature of some of the topics Hatmaker covered as well as the humor she was able to bring to those. Hatmaker and her family have been hurt by the church and these last couple of years they have learned a lot. I felt like that really came through in her writing.

I still slightly disagree withs some of Hatmaker's beliefs but that doesn't keep me from appreciating her words.

My favorite sections of this book were the "How To" sections. They were just downright laughable and so true. Trust me, this was the best part.

**I Received this book for free.**

I love Jen Hatmaker's honest and call to courageous living. She gives permission in a way that my heart breathes deeply of. This book felt a little mixed for me though. Some chapters hit HOME and made me so grateful to be reading these words in this season. I particularly loved Jen's first chapter and deeply resonated with the idea of building layers upon what we learn in previous seasons. I loved her words on creativity and fighting for space to create in our lives, even when margin isn't naturally happening. Other chapters weren't my cup of tea, and I can't tell exactly why. Some of the humor didn't work for me. I think in a book that claimed to be for all women, it was hard to feel like this book wasn't just for those who are a little more wealthy/privileged and/or who happen to be moms. I don't know. I like Jen, but this wasn't my favorite of her books. (Interrupted probably IS my favorite of hers, if you're wondering.)  B for me. 

*I received a complimentary copy of this book. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commissions 16 CFR, Part 255

I'm just shocked that it is in the Christian section of any bookstore. A full chapter on "just binge on Netflix" and you'll be fine pushed me over the edge. A few verses thrown around to "church it up" but completely devoid of any spiritual meat or gusto, this book really is just a self-help book write be a self-proclaimed self-helper. She's a funny person, we get it. She uses modern terms and punctuation (or lack thereof) to make it feel current however, you can only get so far with "I just can't even" as the punchline. I'm sure her loyal followers will roll their eyes at this review casting me as the stereotypical church girl who Jen preaches against, but really, when you objectively read this book, there is very little to grab onto in terms of actual wise counsel and Biblical sustenance. Skip this and go for something by Jen Wilkin.

Delightful as always. Real. Honest. Jen doesn't hide her thoughts, emotions, failures, ugly side. She lays it out there and hopes you can relate because you are not perfect either. This book is more geared toward moms with kids at home, but my kids are grown and I still enjoyed. She gives encouragement to women and to moms with kids at home, that you don't have to be perfect. That you will have highs and lows but keep going the best you can. Admit failures and start again. Celebrate and enjoy the highs. Keep going. Life is messy but women have moxie. Life gets crazy and is not perfect and does not go the way you plan. But women of God have strength, fortitude, tenacity and mettle to get back up again when knocked down, to bounce back when crushed, to start again after a failure, to forgive even when we don't want to,
Each chapter starts with a quote from a famous person, that ties in with the chapter theme. Her wit and humor make the hard lessons more palatable. Sprinkled throughout the book are some her favorite recipes (ones that keep her sane because her children devour them).
Ladies, please read this latest release from Jen for encouragement, inspiration, and fun.

The definition of “moxie” on the back cover of this book is “the ability to face difficulty with spirit and courage; sass, determination, pluck”. That pretty much sums up the essence of Jen Hatmaker’s latest book, and I absolutely loved it. Jen has the ability to make me laugh out loud when I’m reading, and Laughthat’s a rarity, but she also follows through with a thought so spiritually profound and heartfelt, I find myself slack-jawed and teary-eyed.
Of Mess and Moxie is a delightful mishmash of essays on topics such as parenting, creativity, forgiveness, recipes, hilarious tongue-in-cheek “how-to” tips, and general observations on life.
“The world is hard and scary, and it is also phenomenal and gorgeous and thrilling and amazing. Reader, there is a middle place, holy ground, where we learn to embrace the fasting and the feast, for both are God ordained.”
I couldn’t put this book down, and thoroughly recommend it!

My Review:

Being a girl is hard. Forget about the mom or wife part. It is a struggle for us girls to get life right 100% of the time. But try as we may we keep at it until, we are drove over the edge most of the time. Once we get married we just move on to driving our husband crazy with our constant feelings of inadequacies, at that has been my experience.

Jen Hatmaker knows these feelings all too well. She has the same struggles we all do-she isn't a stranger to the daily struggle. I loved her book for these reason but also because she is just plain funny, y'all. she as we all do go over a conversation over and over in our mind. In a very short amount of time we have already determined the outcome.

I loved the book because it gives us life Hatmaker style and it kept me laughing which I loved!

**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the author. All opinions are my own.

Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life is the latest book by Jen Hatmaker, a Christian writer and speaker.

Jen Hatmaker got herself into trouble with some evangelicals last year due to comments she made about homosexuals. She rightly believes that Jesus loves everyone. So do I. I admire high profile authors and speakers such as Hatmaker, Beth Moore and other brave women.

Hatmaker's latest, Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life demonstrates to women that every one of them faces the same messes and struggles with life that she does. Hatmaker uses her own style of wittiness and strength to get through to readers. Women need to have a backbone...Hatmaker shows us how through her examples.

I enjoy Hatmaker's writing style and I recommend Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life.

Oh, how I love this book and the words that Jen puts into the world. Jen has already solidified her place as everyone's favorite internet BFF, and she is back with her 12th book!

Jen finds people where they are - me as a 20-something, my mom in the middle stages of life, my friend who is retired and travels frequently - and brings us all together. Sometimes, it is over common ground, but Jen Hatmaker's words truly have a way of reaching people wherever they are. She fills the pages with humor and wit, with insight and teaching from God. From reading this book, I have leaned more into being a messy transparent but coming up with more moxie to be courageous. This one's for the girls!

I received an advanced reader copy from the publisher.

I loved this one from Hatmaker. Her signature snark and sass are strong, but it's tender too and hits some really beautiful and poignant notes to make it a really well-rounded collection of essays. While I'm not a wife or mother myself, the way Hatmaker talks about parenting and marriage is so enjoyable, humorous, and still relatable, and I really appreciate that. Her brand of humor admittedly isn't for everyone, but this one had me laughing out loud at more than a few points (and I hardly EVER laugh at books!). I was really impressed, though, by the essays that were more personal, more intimate, and more faith-focused-- they struck a tone that really resonated with me and showed a different depth and richness to Hatmaker than I tend to see from her.

I've enjoyed other things I've read from Hatmaker, but this one definitely takes the cake for me! 

THE DEETS: I received this one from BookLook Bloggers in exchange for my review!

This is my first Jen Hatmaker book. I heard/read so many good things about her previous book that I wanted to read her newest book. Early in this book I felt like Jen was sitting with me and talking as a friend to a friend. It wasn't heavy but laughter inducing, while at the same time it spoke to deep truths that my heart is struggling with and longs for.

Jen Hatmaker has a beautiful writing skill that allows her to touch the hearts of the readers through humor and yet deep, deep truth without making it overwhelming or a book you have to slog through.

This book made me wish I could get together with Jen because she was so vulnerable and personable in this book.

I am so glad I go this book and look forward to getting more of her books in the future!

I received this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.

If there was ever a book that I needed to read this was it. I was fortunate enough to receive an ARC to read in exchange for my review. It could not have come at a more poignant time. pg 5 " ...Maybe that thing you loved has run its course. Something doesn't have to be bad to be over" WORD. If you have ever found yourself at the crossroads of where you've been ... where you are ... and where you expected to be (and have fallen short) then read this whole book. Give yourself the freedom to breathe, to laugh, to find the joy you misplaced somewhere along the way. og. 95....she discusses creating, "... if the only person it saves is you, it is enough." oh man. so many good good gems. this book made me laugh...cry...laugh again...and cry again. You are greater than your Mess....Your Moxie is beautiful. all of this in the comedic humor of Jen Hatmaker.... oh and the Recipes!!!! YUMMO!

I've read the last four of Jen Hatmaker's books, and I've found the past four challenging and thought-provoking. I don't agree with everything Jen says, but I enjoy the conversation and appreciate how she shares her faith in practice.
I listened to a few of her podcasts about "Of Mess and Moxie," and enjoyed her interviews with women who've experienced hardships and overcome, and I expected to read a book about rising above difficulties. But, the mess that she writes about is rather everyday and the moxie that she writes about is rather everyday. Maybe that was her point, but I was expecting bigger stories after listening to the podcast. I also couldn't always connect her stories with this message; the chapters felt disjunct.
I couldn't really emotionally connect with much of the book either. I'm not the primary audience: I'm not married, I don't have kids, and I'm not approaching middle age. Though Jen often thinks of those who don't quite fit the mold and will offer asides to those readers, the subject matter of the book shows deference to those readers.
Also, the way she seems to go about sharing her wisdom with her audience is a bit bizarre and off-putting. Her argument seems to be: "This is wisdom because look how great my life is." Her other works have definitely been preachy and heavy on personal anecdotes, but usually have been tinged with more humility and less self-indulgence.
I also felt like there was a lot of recycled material from previous books, more of the same. What I enjoy about Jen is her new thought and experimentation.
The chapter that was most poignant and fresh to me was the chapter on creativity, "Makers and Dreamers." I enjoyed this chapter and would recommend this chapter to others, but I don't think it's worth wading through the rest of the book.

This book is a fun and thought provoking romp through the mind and life of Jen Hatmaker. Written in her characteristic style, readers are left giggling even as religious truths smack them square between the eyes (yes, this might have happened to me once or twice). A new feature in this book are her "how to" sections and they are hilarious. The basic point of this book is that no one gets through life alone. Choose your tribe. Love your tribe. And for the love of all things good and holy feed your tribe (recipes included, of course).

*I received an ARC from the publisher.*

As long-time fan of Jen Hatmaker, I dug into my preview copy of this book with excitement, and I was not disappointed.

In "Of Mess and Moxie," Jen does more of what Jen does best—she uses her unique voice to remind women of all ages that we are in this together, that life is better when we’re building each other up, and that there is delight to be found in each day, be it messy or glorious (or a bit of both). Best of all, she uses her gift of story to remind us that women are full of moxie, and we were put on this earth to use it!

As always, by the time you finish this collection of essays about Jen's life, you'll feel like Jen is your BFF, and she's writing about your life experiences. You'll ask yourself over and over, "How did she KNOW?" And you'll be grateful once again to realize that you're not the only one, you're not alone, and we all have something to learn from and teach each other. How awesome is that?

I reveled in Jen Hatmaker's latest journey, Of Mess and Moxie. She has weathered the storms of the first seasons of life, and comes alongside her readers with a newfound maturity, wisdom, and gentleness that has grown along with her faith. No longer satisfied with simple, breezy platitudes, Jen digs deep into her own walk with Jesus to encourage us to ask the questions, to embrace the mess, and to celebrate our strength - our Moxie - as we figure out this thing called Life. Spoiler - we're gonna be okay. We have one another, and it's good. Thank you, Jen, for speaking truth to the Sisterhood. We need more front porches, wine glasses, and extra large orders of queso and guacamole, more grace, and more love. This book is a balm for the soul, an encouragement, a love letter, to women everywhere. Read this with your girlfriends. Celebrate the Mess and the Moxie in all of us, and go love all the people.

I feel that Jen has finally found her voice. There is a strength, a maturity, in her words that comes only after struggle and pain. She has wrestled with the Hard Questions, and weathered Hard Things. Her own admission of her earnestness in those early years, and how she has grown through the lessons that motherhood, ministry, and loving people have taught her, lend a weight to her words that was, perhaps, missing, in her earlier work. In Of Mess and Moxie, I see a Jen who is older, wiser, a little sadder, but also more joyful, and, maybe less certain of some things, but more convinced of others. "We don't have to have all the answers," is a truth that comes only through experience, and it is something that takes guts to admit in a Christian forum fraught with Thou Shalts And Shalt Nots. Jen navigates her growth with both humor and humility, owning her struggle, and gaining wisdom in the process.

She invites us into her mess, assuring the reader that what the world considers chaos is, in fact, NORMAL REAL LIFE. And, when we embrace the mess, we can find our own Moxie, the strength that we all have inside of us. When we own our mess, we find our moxie. Life is hard. It is also infinitely GOOD. When things go splendidly off the rails, it doesn't mean that we have messed up irrevocably, and that all is lost. It means that we gather our Tribe around us, we mourn, we do the hard work, we forgive, and we grow and move forward. And, above all, we LOVE.

We are all in this mess together. We all take wrong turns, stress over potty training toddlers and teenagers who make questionable choices. We all find ourselves renegotiating relationships, with our parents, our spouses, our friends, our kids. We let people down. We learn to ask forgiveness, and we learn to grant it, even when not asked. We learn what it means to lose, and, above all, what it means to love.

All of this Jen frames within the light of the Gospel. Not a hard-line, black-and-white litmus test, but, rather, a litany of Love and Grace, inviting people IN, rather than keeping them OUT. The Kingdom is grown through Relationship, through listening, through shared stories. The redeeming work of Jesus frees us to love with reckless abandon. You cannot overlove your people. You love them through the mess, and help them find their own moxie. This is radical, life-changing Love. This is Gospel. This is for all of us.

Thank you, Jen, for your honesty, for your words, and for your heart. Thank you for the encouragement to create, to ask questions, to redefine ourselves as season change, This is one book that I will keep close, not banished to the bookshelf, and will wear out, dog-ear, and spill wine on. I will gather my tribe and laugh and cry and binge-read this book, build one another up, and give all of us the freedom to embrace not only our own messes, but others', as well, and celebrate our Moxie, in this gloriously messy life.

I received an ARC of this book from the publisher.

Of course Jen Hatmaker wrote another hilarious, honest, and our-of-the-park book. Of course she did. She's Jen Hatmaker! I wouldn't expect anything less.

Expectations aside, I adored Of Mess and Moxie. It felt a little more serious that her previous book For the Love but was still hilarious and accessible. I laughed out loud but there were also times where I had to set the book down because I had tears in my eyes.

What I love about this book most of all is how it points back to Jesus. He is the guiding light in Jen's words and that is so evident in Of Mess and Moxie.

I received a book from the publisher.

This book will make you laugh so hard you will cry and your husband will think you are crazy because of all the maniacal laughter. I received an advanced copy of this and loved every minute. Jen and I don't agree on everything theologically but that doesn't mean there is no truth to be found. This booked is packed with life giving humor/sarcasm and the serious parts really make you stop and examine. Definitely worth the read.

"Of Mess and Moxie" embodies Jen Hatmaker's life motto: "Love God. Love People. The end." It's fun, witty, serious, sensitive, loving, encompassing, tender, sobering, easy to read, and heart wrenching--all at the same time. Each chapter is packed chock full of what being a woman is all about. I can't imagine a woman who can't find herself nodding along, saying, "Me, too!" This is a book that women of all ages will enjoy--from the fresh-faced youngest who aren't sure they really fall into the "woman" category yet to the sparkly-haired great-grandmothers who have experienced so many of the joys, sorrows, trials, and rewards of life--because we all know that life's at least a little bit messy and every one of us has more moxie than most people realize. I highly recommend!

I received an advance reader copy from the publisher.

Of Mess and Moxie is for the girls. Jen Hatmaker speaks honestly and from the heart when she tells it like it is in the Mess and celebrates our Moxie. I am halfway through the book and I have laughed and cried as I related to both my own mess and moxie. The essays in this book touch the heart of "everywoman" and allow that both mess and moxie are normal and okay. There are also some yummy recipes peppered throughout. Grab a copy of Of Mess and Moxie; you will not be disappointed. I received an advanced reader copy from the publisher for my honest review. I will update this review if needed when I finish the book.

Of Mess and Moxie is a gift from Jen Hatmaker to her readers. Every word from the introduction to the last page brings encouragement for women of every age and life situation. Yet again she weaves together the funny, hard, and honest realities of life and motherhood into a hard-to-put down collection of essays.

Veteran Jen readers will not be disappointed because she once again finds a way to both encourage and challenge simultaneously. I’ve long marveled at the way she can put to words the tension that lies within each woman, tension we can’t ourselves fully explain. Her honesty and transparency acknowledges that we are not alone in our struggles, and creates comradery amongst those with similar doubts and questions.

If you’ve ever felt like a misfit floundering in a sea of Christian conformity Of Mess and Moxie brings a little bit of relief and comfort to your soul. Reading through this book, it is clear that Jen loves God and people, especially her readers. She challenges each woman to care for herself and others in a way that reflects both faith and grace. My book is highlighted and underlined, pages are dog-eared, and notes are scrolled throughout the margins because her words pushed me to consider myself more deeply.

Infused throughout is practical advice for creating a life that reflects our faith and values in the midst of our current culture. She openly shares what we all like to hide, calling out the guilt we balance every day as we try to be the best at everything and challenges us to reject motherhood martyrdom. “You are far more than your worst day, your worst experience, your worst season, dear one.” She understands the constraints we feel, leading us to the times to be brave and times to hunker down. We find ways to engage our teens in the midst of their struggles and how to be a friend to those who are hurting. Really, the stories in this book free us to live in the real world so people see Jesus through us. “God’s plan would naturally place Christians in the epicenter of their communities…We’d be coveted neighbors and trusted advocates, friends to all and enemies of none.”

Much like For the Love, Of Mess and Moxie is a conversation about life and faith as opposed to a traditional bible study. The deep work of thought and reflection is the responsibility of the reader and limited only by your willingness to allow the Holy Spirit to move within you. This book was a gift for my misfit soul.

Written in the same style as For the Love, this is like the sequel. In the midst of her own trying, heart-breaking season, the author gives us a book that acknowledges the mess that exists in all of our lives and calls forth the moxie that brings us through it into true beauty. It truly is a book "for the girls", single, married, kids, no matter the details. Written with humor, grace, love, hope, and honesty, this book will bless your heart, if you let it. Embracing who and where you are but not being content to leave you there, it is full of gospel and grace. It will have you laughing and crying as the author points us back to God at all times, in all situations. I received an advanced reader copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

My friend, an avid Jen Hatmaker fan, passed along this book, and like with most of her other books, I looked forward to reading it (and mostly for the laughter that would ensure). And then, like with a couple of her other books, I found myself with mixed feelings.

I LOVE the way she is able to view the world and give everyday experiences a dose of humor. What I might have been crying about the day before, I now am looking at in a new way. I enjoy her concern for people to experience life and joy and the way she is quite encouraging. I particularly enjoyed the chapter on Unbranded, a good reminder that we don't have to live such all or nothing lives.

On the contrary, when I read her books, I always walk away with a sense of not feeling "enough"-- that I don't have enough parties, clubs, activities, kids, picturesque extended family or amazing vacations, etc. I don't think at all that she is intending to communicate this, and perhaps it is my own stuff, BUT it is there for me nonetheless. I do appreciate that she also shares her hardships and no matter what, I walk away feeling challenged as to who I really am and what I want in life and I feel thankful for the reminder to be light-hearted and find laughter in daily rounds.

When I read 'Of Mess and Moxie' I highlighted phrases, dog-eared pages, underlined passages, attached post-it notes, and wrote exclamation marks in the margins because so much of it spoke to me. When I started writing this endorsement, so much of the book had been marked up that I had a hard time deciding which parts to mention because Jen Hatmaker packed so much truth, humor, love, and guidance into every page. Jen has so much love for women, all women, regardless of their state in life, and that love comes through on every page. She wants us all to do well, to love well, and to know that we are loved by a caring, kind God. Chapter 8, "No Strings Attached" (which sounds like an awesome a cappella group), should be required reading for every human. Jen humbly tells us her story while sharing the truth of God's love. "The entire story of God reveals a vast, encompassing campaign to love humanity all the way home. It is the clearest picture of Jesus, who we should desire in every heart." The beginning of each chapter has given me a new reading list to tackle since she includes such meaningful quotes from Brendan Manning, Anne Lamott, Thomas Aquinas, and others. Thank you, Jen, for sharing your heart and your gifts in this book. I treasure these words and will return to them when I need encouragement, a laugh, or a reminder of all the good that God gave us.

I received an Advance Readers Copy of this book in exchange for feedback.

Jen Hatmaker has a habit of being able to speak directly into my life at any given moment. Of Mess and Moxie is no different. I cry-laughed through her chapter 4 Grocery Store Theology. Because TRUTH. I leaned into We Live in chapter 5 and breathed a sigh of release and sisterly camaraderie because Jen shows us that we are not alone when darkness finds us and that strength comes from the broken places. There is so much more to this book, much more than can be put into words here.... So I'll leave you with a few of Jen's: "We live. Hallelujah."

*I received an Advance Reader Copy from the publisher. This is my honest review.*

Thank you to Netgalley and Thomas Nelson Publishing for granting my wish for this book!

If you haven’t read a Jen Hatmaker book yet, or aren’t following her on social media, you’re sorely missing out on hilarious honesty that comes when a woman has raised five children, been through a home renovation on television, and accrued the insight of a life working for God. When I saw she was releasing another book, I knew I would enjoy the hilarity inside. The first half of this book was exactly that for me. I especially loved Jen’s lists titled, “How to Plan a Family”, “How to Wake your Children up Peacefully from Naptime”, or “How to get your Husband to Fix that Thing He’s Been Saying for 3 Months that He’d Fix.” These lists included split-your-sides-laughing truths such as, “Make out with your spouse. Have twins, making your child count five in five years” and “Pick up a hammer and walk in the general direction of the broken thing. This should effectively catapult your husband off the couch and into disgruntled service: ‘I said I would do that!‘” She perfectly describes every middle-class American family’s woes in the most comical and relatable sense!

About halfway through the book, however, I found myself having second thoughts about this novel as Jen veers slightly left with her thoughts and theology. I felt as if she was trying to appease the World while still relating to Christians – two paths that often cannot parallel. As she goes on to describe loving people, I felt entirely conflicted. I know we are to love all people, include all people at our tables, and serve people as Jesus did. Unfortunately, love and acceptance are not the same things. I fear Jen may misguide people into believing all Christians are doing things wrong, creating an even bigger divide.

With a Liberal dose of love, everything can be right in the world. We live in a place where love and acceptance are favored over Truth. That roaring lion, also known as Satan is as sly as a fox. Of course he would use the one good and pure thing we have in the world and convince us we’re doing it wrong.

We’re loving to spread tolerance, sure we’re doing the work of Jesus. We’re loving to spare feelings. We’re loving people to death, but losing their most important part when death meets us head on…the soul.

The truth is hard to face, sometimes it hurts, but our duty as Christians is to walk in its Light. Unfortunately, with parts of this book, I feel Jen Hatmaker has veered to the shadows. The light is a little dimmer, it doesn’t burn the eyes quite as badly, but still isn’t too dark to see. I wouldn’t look to this book for spiritual guidance or theology, but I did find fun, humanity and community inside the pages. I don’t for one minute doubt Jen Hatmaker’s Faith or love of God, but I simply don’t agree with much of her theology. I think Christians would do well to compare notes with the Bible to find where they should Biblically stand on issues represented in these pages.

Like Jen said,

“Trust me: don’t waste your time over-valuing Christian Famous people. It is so easy to cast public figures as prototypes of discipleship or pristine examples of faithfulness, but all that admiration is totally misplaced. I mean this sincerely: only Jesus is worth your full devotion. He alone will never let you down and will always lead you correctly.”

While this book had numerous laugh-out-loud moments, good recipes I will be giving a go, and a sense of sisterhood that made me feel less alone as a mother, I still am on the fence about this book as a whole. I loved big chunks of the writing, but felt as if this was cross between a secular book and a Christian book in other ways. Unfortunately, the mixed messages I experienced were hard to reconcile. Nonetheless, I’d love to thank Jen for making me laugh!

If you feel not enough, too much, overwhelmed, under-resourced, Jen Hatmaker has a word for you. Not just a word, but a whole book, actually. Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life brings an encouraging and empowering message for us messy women.

In her vulnerable, snarky style, Jen shares stories from her messy places. She is instantly relatable, making it ok to be flawed. She shares mom highs and lows, many of which you may have seen on her social media pages. Readers have an invitation into the hurting places, some of which involve the church and messy relationships. What makes Moxie such a treasure is the cheerleading and truth-telling going on her pages.

*I received an advanced reader copy of this book from the publisher.

Jen Hatmaker has a habit of being able to speak directly into my life at any given moment. Of Mess and Moxie is no different. I cry-laughed through her chapter 4 Grocery Store Theology. Because TRUTH. I leaned into We Live in chapter 5 and breathed a sigh of release and sisterly camaraderie because Jen shows us that we are not alone when darkness finds us and that strength comes from the broken places. There is so much more to this book, much more than can be put into words here.... So I'll leave you with a few of Jen's: "We live. Hallelujah."

*I received an Advance Reader Copy from the publisher. This is my honest review.*

Thank you to Netgalley and Thomas Nelson Publishing for granting my wish for this book!

If you haven’t read a Jen Hatmaker book yet, or aren’t following her on social media, you’re sorely missing out on hilarious honesty that comes when a woman has raised five children, been through a home renovation on television, and accrued the insight of a life working for God. When I saw she was releasing another book, I knew I would enjoy the hilarity inside. The first half of this book was exactly that for me. I especially loved Jen’s lists titled, “How to Plan a Family”, “How to Wake your Children up Peacefully from Naptime”, or “How to get your Husband to Fix that Thing He’s Been Saying for 3 Months that He’d Fix.” These lists included split-your-sides-laughing truths such as, “Make out with your spouse. Have twins, making your child count five in five years” and “Pick up a hammer and walk in the general direction of the broken thing. This should effectively catapult your husband off the couch and into disgruntled service: ‘I said I would do that!‘” She perfectly describes every middle-class American family’s woes in the most comical and relatable sense!

About halfway through the book, however, I found myself having second thoughts about this novel as Jen veers slightly left with her thoughts and theology. I felt as if she was trying to appease the World while still relating to Christians – two paths that often cannot parallel. As she goes on to describe loving people, I felt entirely conflicted. I know we are to love all people, include all people at our tables, and serve people as Jesus did. Unfortunately, love and acceptance are not the same things. I fear Jen may misguide people into believing all Christians are doing things wrong, creating an even bigger divide.

With a Liberal dose of love, everything can be right in the world. We live in a place where love and acceptance are favored over Truth. That roaring lion, also known as Satan is as sly as a fox. Of course he would use the one good and pure thing we have in the world and convince us we’re doing it wrong.

We’re loving to spread tolerance, sure we’re doing the work of Jesus. We’re loving to spare feelings. We’re loving people to death, but losing their most important part when death meets us head on…the soul.

The truth is hard to face, sometimes it hurts, but our duty as Christians is to walk in its Light. Unfortunately, with parts of this book, I feel Jen Hatmaker has veered to the shadows. The light is a little dimmer, it doesn’t burn the eyes quite as badly, but still isn’t too dark to see. I wouldn’t look to this book for spiritual guidance or theology, but I did find fun, humanity and community inside the pages. I don’t for one minute doubt Jen Hatmaker’s Faith or love of God, but I simply don’t agree with much of her theology. I think Christians would do well to compare notes with the Bible to find where they should Biblically stand on issues represented in these pages.

Like Jen said,

“Trust me: don’t waste your time over-valuing Christian Famous people. It is so easy to cast public figures as prototypes of discipleship or pristine examples of faithfulness, but all that admiration is totally misplaced. I mean this sincerely: only Jesus is worth your full devotion. He alone will never let you down and will always lead you correctly.”

While this book had numerous laugh-out-loud moments, good recipes I will be giving a go, and a sense of sisterhood that made me feel less alone as a mother, I still am on the fence about this book as a whole. I loved big chunks of the writing, but felt as if this was cross between a secular book and a Christian book in other ways. Unfortunately, the mixed messages I experienced were hard to reconcile. Nonetheless, I’d love to thank Jen for making me laugh!

If you feel not enough, too much, overwhelmed, under-resourced, Jen Hatmaker has a word for you. Not just a word, but a whole book, actually. Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life brings an encouraging and empowering message for us messy women.

In her vulnerable, snarky style, Jen shares stories from her messy places. She is instantly relatable, making it ok to be flawed. She shares mom highs and lows, many of which you may have seen on her social media pages. Readers have an invitation into the hurting places, some of which involve the church and messy relationships. What makes Moxie such a treasure is the cheerleading and truth-telling going on her pages.

*I received an advanced reader copy of this book from the publisher.

I have been an avid read of Jen Hatmaker for around 5 years; and I am happy to say OMAM did not disappoint. There is less 'heaviness' than some of her previous work but this book also hits big on a deeper level. Jen has a knack for truly connecting with her audience and for me personally, meets me in a parallel season. In longing for deep knit community and friendship i am reminded to keep the doors open, to embrace and *listen* and be aware. I think while all may not relate to her specific life situations, she does a great job in acknowledging that we are all in different places and have the capacity to cheer each other on and support one another. All in all, I think the book is relatable, honest, poignant and definitely worth the read.

Jen Hatmaker has a refreshing way of being blunt and brutally honest. Although I don’t necessarily agree with everything she says but for the overall message of the book it is very good and very encouraging to see we are not alone. We don’t have to do life alone and the importance of friendships, love, forgiveness and the grace of God.

I found the book to be a refreshing read and I do recommend that you do not just take my word for it, read it for yourself. I like her honesty and the way she writes and I enjoyed the fact that she is real and not hiding behind a facade. Life is messy and as women we need to be full of moxie to get through. Lets lean on our tribe and do life together.

She's back, y'all, and better than ever. Jen tackles everything from love and faith to Netflix and grocery shopping for a family of five, with her signature wit and wisdom. If you are a woman who has ever felt like you're not enough, this book is for you. You are enough, and more. The "How-To" chapters are a hilarious bonus; Hatmaker snarkily tells you how to accomplish such tasks as go bathing-suit shopping three months postpartum and how to get your husband to fix something broken in the house. But humor aside, this book reaches deep into how to love, and how to extract love from this crazy, messy life, all while pointing her readers straight back to Jesus. Chalk up another win for Jen.

As a girl in my late 30’s….Reading “Of Mess and Moxie” has been like sitting around barefoot drinking a glass of tea {or wine!} with a close friend.
Jen Hatmaker has an incredible ability to relate to all girls in their various season of life. Just like in a back porch conversation, one minute the discussion centers around how it is even possible to be so passionately in love with these little people that God has gifted us to raise, while simultaneously wanting to hide away in our bedroom for just one second of uninterrupted silence. Without missing a beat, the conversation changes to how we stand in awe of a God who loves us so much more than we could ever have imagined, while at the exact same time we are jotting down a “must try” recipe so our family can have at least one homemade meal this week.

Jen is real and raw and honest and she makes a girl think maybe, just maybe, we are ALL normal overwhelmed Mommas who are doing the very best we can. Jen’s words breathe air into my soul and remind me that God isn’t looking for perfection. He’s created each of us in His perfect image and loves us exactly where we are. In fact, He loves us so much that He has blessed us with a tribe of women to love each other, lift one another up and guide us back to Jesus when the world knocks us around and we lose our way. While each of our lives is messy and hard, they are also beautiful and joyful, and with girlfriends, a little bit of Jen Hatmaker and a whole lot of Jesus, our lives can be so much richer than we ever could have imagined. Even in the middle of our mess, we can find our moxie, grab on and enjoy the ride!

“Of Mess and Moxie” is a FUN book to read! Jen is so relatable, and she makes the everyday struggles we all deal with seem so hilarious! In addition to her supreme humor, Jen is also heartfelt, thoughtful, and a fantastic human being. I loved reading stories about her “first family,” and I can relate to being over-loved! Do yourself a favor: grab your favorite drink, a snack, and this book and spend some time laughing, crying, and making a new best friend in Jen!

I received an ARC from the publisher. (Thank you!!)

If you are looking for a book that will make you laugh, cry, and wonder if someone is reading your mail... this is that book! Jen Hatmaker's sense of humor and honesty is refreshing for a weary soul!!

It feels like that long awaited lunch date with that best friend you can pick back up with, no matter how long it's been...

Grab a iced coffee and this book and feel the laughter and tears come in the best possible way!

"I received a pre reading copy of this book before release."

My best friend, Jen, has done it again with her new book. Oh wait...we are not really best friends, but her book makes me feel like we are! Jen has written a beautiful, fun, happy, poignant book that will have you shouting out in laughter and then have you crying the next minute! She gets REAL with you..REAL FAST. I am so thankful for learning about the work "Moxie" and realizing that I actually have some! Looking forward to a year full of Mess and Moxie...such a beautiful thing! I was blessed to receive an advanced copy of this book!

Of Mess and Moxie: Wrangling Delight Out of This Wild and Glorious Life by Jen Hatmaker is a book that explores a variety of women's issues. What I liked the most about this book was the casual writing style. The "makers" chapter appealed the most to me, because it explored the creative side and how a person is often conflicted, too tired or overwhelmed to fully explore her ideas.

This book was easy to read and it had a good flow. I also liked the stories about her childhood and growing up, because it made the book very easy to relate to. I received a free copy of this book from the publisher.

Fun read. Encourages me to work on more friendships! Encouraging in the mom arena, makes me feel like I am capable despite my shortcomings. Overall just an OK book for me, found myself wanting it to be finished halfway through. Agree with other reviews that the book left me feeling a little more desperate about my own situation, mostly around lack of strong, everyday friendships. Something to strive for obviously but it's such a challenge for me in this stage of toddlers. Wish more authentic, constructive advice or encouragement could have been given to those who lack her tight circle of friends, which from my experience is a majority of women especially those with young kids.

Loved and savored every bit of this book! One of the quotes I especially love is, "The entire story of God reveals a vast, encompassing campaign to love humanity all the way home." It is just that simple. Her humor and grace and sass shine through as they do in all of her books. She's coming at us in this book with many hard experiences behind her and her level of insight and compassion reflect that. Hearty recommend for women young or old in any phase of your life.
I received an advance reader copy from the publisher.

This book has something for everyone! Literally! I love how Jen brings you to her table and says, "Here, I have room for you" and then shows you how to have room for others, too. If you're older, then you can gain from it. If you're middle age, you can gain from it. If you're young, you can gain from it. I don't often promote books to people, but with this one, I knew I could come behind this book 100%. I was blessed to be on the launch team for this book and got a preview copy in exchange for my honest review. But even if I hadn't had that opportunity, I would still be promoting this book and wanting others to read it.

I can’t remember the last time when reading a book made me laugh smack dab from my toes, or sob from somewhere deep in my heart, or shout a “hallelujah” or two! Ms. Hatmaker’s latest book, Of Mess and Moxie, was the surprise book of the year for me. When I received an Advance Reader’s Copy from the publisher in exchange for my honest review, I was excited about the title and loved the cover. However, as a retiree, I wondered what I might have in common with the issues and struggles about which a 40-something might write. Chapter by chapter I found my answer. Ms. Hatmaker’s hard-won insight seems to allow her to write with integrity and hit crucial issues common for all of us, even me in my sixties. I’m still thanking the Lord for my journey through Chapter 18, Forgiveness School, which turned my life upside down, inside out, and finally right side up. This book is destined to be 2017’s break-out hit for women’s study groups and individual reading.

I loved all of Jen Hatmaker's past books. They just spoke to me and I would recommend them to everyone. This book was ok. It was funny and made me laugh out loud. I saw a lot of my daily life in it, especially the grocery store chapter. I was laughing so hard because I hate meal planning and my kids don't stop eating.
But, I did find it a little on the shallow side with not much substance. There were a few chapters where she kind of tried to dig deeper but most of it just read like funny blog posts.

If you want something quick and fun to read with a few laughs, this works. If you are expecting something like her past books or something with substance you will be disappointed.

This book is heartfelt and a little bit sassy. It is a shout out to the girls and encourages us all to be more of ourselves and embrace who we are. I found myself highlighting so many pages in this book! Getting a physical copy of this has made the top of my to-do list, because I know I will be re-reading it very soon. I am looking forward to taking notes and tagging pages to refer to again and again.

* Thank you to Jen Hatmaker, Thomas Nelson and Netgalley for providing a digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

Jen hit it out of the park with this one. I've never read a Jen book that didn't speak to me, but Of Mess and Moxie took it past that. It's easy to get lost in the mess of life--the mundane, boring, seemingly average mess. OMAM is for ALL the girls--the ones in EVERY stage of life, whether you are looking forward to things, in the middle and need encouraging to get through or if you're looking back with tears & laughter. My mom and I sat and read essays out loud--and had several moments where we had to stop reading and breathe because we were laughing or crying or a little bit of both. It's full of real stories and you can tell that Jen has a real heart for sharing with women. received an advanced readers copy in exchange for my honest opinion.

ETA: Make the Panang Curry. ASAP.

I received and Advanced Reader Copy and this is my honest review: This may be my favorite Jen Hatmaker book yet, and that's saying something! Not only does she transparently offer commentary on her younger self (and her previous books), she also offers a beautifully-written, conversational look at sisterhood. We're all in this together, ladies, and J. Hat is here to remind us. Written from the perspective of confidante, bestie, crazy aunt, wise sage and more, Hatmaker once again delivers on a promise to make us all laugh, while also bringing us closer to Jesus. How, you ask? Read the book to find out.

Still growing and blowing, wind in her hair, belting out tunes with the radio, Jen Hatmaker takes readers on a ride through life as she sees it. Displaying characteristic humor, as a writer she cheers others along the way––those making their own journey. Of Mess and Moxie is not a theological treatise for reference. Intersections between cultural issues and biblical worldview, readers may find themselves differing with Jen’s advice, her opinions and her perspective. Takeaway: Jen loves Jesus and she loves people. That comes through.

I received an Advance Reader’s Copy for review.

Jen's writing style is always refreshing and entertaining. She cracks me up. If you are looking for something light-hearted, with some deep truth mixed in, this is a great read for you.

Content-wise, you will read everything from recipes, to Jen's personal memories, to comical "how-to's", to some of Jen's deep-set convictions about various topics. I believe there is something in here for everyone.

I know Jen's views have brought about some controversy in the last months. I do not agree with everything she says, but I have learned a lot from her overall attitude about Jesus, the church, and ministry. Turns out, you can disagree with someone and still learn from them and enjoy their writing. There were chapter in this book that were a balm to my heart and encouragement for my life. I reccommend reading it with an open mind.

This book. Oh, this book! I got to read an advance copy and I adore it! I see myself in it. I see my mom, and my daughter, and my friends. It challenges me, makes me laugh hysterically, speaks to my soul, and gives me a serious craving for curry. Jen's words speak to women in a way that is not always easy to find. Reading her words is like talking to a friend. And not just any friend, the friend who knows exactly when to send you bad memes, tell you that your outfit stinks, and show up at your house with wine in a crisis. You need this book in your life.

This book had some interesting and enlightening parts, and sure, I had a few good chuckles. But it seemed a bit scattered, like she just wrote down random thoughts here and there. Several times I wondered, what am I reading, and what's the point of it? The best thing in this book was the crunchy salad recipe- yummy!

Dozens of Christian books are released every single day. What sets Jen Hatmaker apart is her trademark blend of humor and inspiration. In "Of Mess and Moxie," she continues with the essay style she used in her previous book "For the Love," switching seamlessly between humorous, inspirational, and memoir-style essays. Somehow, she manages to relate to women (and men!) in every stage of life, making us laugh, cry, and draw nearer to God.

I cannot recommend this book highly enough. It is the first book I have given 5 stars to since 2015, and I read over 100 books a year.

I was given an advance reader copy of this book. This is my honest review.

I'd not heard of Jen Hatmaker but discovered her through a younger friend last year. Back last summer, she read me parts of the book that were true, laugh-out-loud funny, and just plain vulnerable. Jen's voice is approachable, warm, and compelling. Even though I don't have kids yet, I still felt included, welcomed, and wanted as I listened to her share about her life with humility and grace. I listened to this book on Audible last year, and I plan on listening to it again this year. It's that good. She is the real deal when it comes to living life as Jesus would live but she's also direct, funny, and true. A must-read classic for all those of us who love spiritual memoirs.

This book is another winner from Team Hatmaker. Jen’s latest book supplies a perfect case of whiplash between outright hilarious topics to serious subjects and back again. Jen reminds us that ‘People may hate us because of Jesus, but they should never hate Jesus because of us.’ Her stories about the elementary school ‘Folder’ bring back memories of relief for every parent who has navigated their young learner into Middle School.  Jen asks us to ‘save our best devotion for Jesus’ and ‘it isn’t just that God is loving but that He is love itself.’ True words blended together from a skilled storyteller. I received an advance reader copy from the publisher.

Isn't moxie a great word? It conjures up a picture of strength and sass, humor and honesty, courage and determination. All of us girls, at every age and stage of life know about the mess. Of Mess and Moxie offers witty, laugh out loud, hold back tears encouragement from author Jen Hatmaker to acknowledge the mess but live everyday with moxie. I love books that are fun to read and at the same time have substance that challenges me and speaks to my heart...just like this one!
I received an ARC from the publisher.

I got this from the library so maybe not paying for it made my expectations lower and therefore my delight with this book higher! I have read some of her other books and really not enjoyed her style or her constant nods to a target audience of sassy ladies I couldn't really connect with. But I checked this one out after reading some of the bad reviews on here and realizing that if people thought this book was "too messy" and not religious enough this may be the first one of her books I actually like! If you understand that this is a collection of things she has learned over time and not a linear novel then it's great. It's not a lot of new ideas but I think it's a great addition to the world. Maybe I changed or maybe she did but this book is the first one I read without feeling like she was constantly trying to prove how funny and sassy she was. In this one, she's a genuinely funny person sharing lessons learned.

Wonderful! I really looked forward to reading this book. Jen's stories and essays are hilarious and entertaining, sad and uplifting, inspirational and heart-warming. And did I mention hilarious? I highly recommend the audiobook as it is read by the author herself. I am moved to purchase the hard copy of this book so that I can reference back to it as needed, especially the chapter on Teenagers. Simply wonderful, thank you for sharing your gift with us!

I received an advance copy of the book and I've been chomping at the bit to share about this gem! Ladies, it doesn't matter who you are or what season of life you're in. You will identify with some part of this book. As an older single woman who's never been married and has no kids, it's often difficult to see myself in books like this one, written specifically for women. Not so with Jen Hatmaker's newest read. As per her usual style, Jen covers it all, includes us all, and reminds us all that we belong at the table, just like Jesus does. The chapter on forgiveness, all by itself, is worth the price of the entire book and then some, but the Bonus Mom chapter brought me to tears.

I was so excited when I saw this book on the upcoming releases list. While her writing did not disappoint, I think I would have related more if I were in a different season on life. I have read many of her books over the years (out of order, albeit), and each one comes from a part of her heart based in the season of life she resides in while writing. Uninvited spoke to me tremendously, as did For the Love. Both were so relevant to my current life situations.

While I enjoyed reading Of Mess and Moxie, it didn’t hit my soul the same way as some of her previous titles. It felt more self-reflective than the others, as if Hatmaker is trying on a new writing perspective. Don’t let that discount the value of this book, however. Consider the trials and tribulations of motherhood—a young, first time mother of a newborn doesn’t have the same worries as a mother of a teenager. But both have equally respectable concerns and advice to give others. Life is hard and messy—regardless of what point you are in. It seems that in this book, Hatmaker has reached a point in life where she is looking back at her life and trying to resituate herself within a new life phase. Her tone is still hilarious, though more introspective, and her writing structure is easy to follow and friendly.

If I were ten years older, I think I wouldn’t have been able to put it down.

I could not stop talking about this book. Love her or hate her Jen Hatmaker has a captivating personality. I had so many huge heart eye emoji moments (and the occasional eye-roll). I love that she says right from the beginning that she isn't perfect. That she is a mess and yet she has a lot of light and truth to share. It wasn't deeply theological but it was right where I am at right now in this crazy season of raising kids. This was a quick read in the car-line and made me both cry and laugh out loud.

At one point in this book I was laughing while the tears from the last chapter were still rolling down my cheek. I had signed up to be part of book launch and really didn't know what to expect. I received an advance readers copy and was SO glad I did. I couldn't put it down and I also couldn't wait to share it with my friends. She made me look at my real life relationships in a different way than I ever had before.
This is a book you'll want to get, read and then share with your closest friends!

Jen will make you laugh and cry and shout Amen. In her latest book she does not disappoint. Often I found myself shaking my head in agreement and stifling giggles as I read at times in a darkened room trying to not wake my snoring husband, after an exhausting day of playing mom taxi. But the book was worth losing a few hours of precious sleep, to know I was not alone in this life of Mess and Moxie.

I received an advanced reader copy.

I was blessed to receive an advanced readers copy in exchange for my honest review and let me just say that Jen has done it again!!! Reading Of Mess and Moxie is like sitting down with your bestie and having a conversation. She speaks to our hearts and our minds so openly and without reservation. No matter what season you are walking in right now, this book is for you. I laughed, I cried, I felt loved, I felt like my mess was normal. Definitely one you want to get your hands on and read.

Jen Hatmaker begins by saying this book is for all the girls, and I can't help but agree. Truly, it's for women everywhere (no matter your background). Whether you're 23, 42, 67 or somewhere in between... you'll laugh and cry (and maybe cry-laugh) while reading Jen's words. This book is honest and brave and full of shenanigans. I've read multiple books written by Jen Hatmaker and I have to say, you can tell she's writing with a heart for her readers through Of Mess and Moxie.

Jen Hatmaker is able to bring forth so many emotions and forces the reader to look inward - to dig deep - but also enjoy a glass of wine.

I have laughed hysterically. Out loud. In public. I have cried big weepy tears. Out loud. In public. Moxie is refreshing: an author being raw, unguarded, and real - it pushes the status quo and reels you in immediately.

I mean, who else could give us recipes, anecdotes, grace, and love for Jesus and people better?

I received an Advanced Reader Copy of OMAM to provide honest review. I was not compensated and all thoughts and opinions are my own.

I will read pretty much anything you send my way. But this book? It was like it was written for me. While I love the current season we are in as parents, I know that the good seasons don't last forever. Many of my friendships are doing well, with only a few that are in strange stages of change but Hatmaker's "Of Mess and Moxie"* is the perfect book to remind us that not all pain lasts forever. That healing happens and that you an move forward in life with joy and splendor.

Jen Hatmaker’s newest book is written with her signature conversational style which blends humor and honesty. You really feel like you are chatting with a good friend as your read it. Made up of short essays, this book is an easy read. You will laugh as well as cry as you read this one.

While this complimentary book was provided for review by Thomas Nelson Publishing, no other compensation was given. All remarks are my personal and honest opinions.

Jen Hatmaker speaks directly to the heart of things and what is important in life. She gives you a road map to make decisions and be alright with your decisions. Her backbone has been tested and she has come out of the fire whole, hale and hearty!! Jen has Moxie!!

Jen Hatmaker's done it again. Somehow she's written exactly the words I have swirling around in my head but can't figure out how to let out of my mouth. So much down to earth wisdom, and the level of understanding that she exudes in her writing made me catch my breath. "But I thought that only happened to me? I thought I was the only one who felt that way?" This woman simultaneously manages to draw us in with shared stories and experiences and laughter, all while gently instructing and encouraging us towards God's path for us.

If you want a new BFF, who is loving, honest, raw, and HILARIOUS, Jen Hatmaker is your gal. Also? The recipes she shares in this book are pure GOLD. So much yum.

I was lucky enough to receive an ARC. And now that I have hungrily devoured it, I will go back and slowly savor every word and let them soak in a bit more intentionally.

I received an Advanced Reader Copy: Jen Hatmaker does such a great job of relating to her readers that this book feels so much more like a conversation among friends than a memoir. Its incredibly heartfelt, with the moxie shown in Jen's hilarious sense of humor. Jen is so for women, people and Jesus and shows us there is no shame in messiness that life brings...we just have to remember our moxie! I loved the How To sections...and she also gives us some fun, easy-ish recipes to try out!

I’m new to Jen Hatmaker but I found reading this book very frustrating. Each chapter was a stream of consciousness which didn’t seem to link from one chapter to the next. If you want someone just to tell you ‘I’m okay, you are okay’ you should buy this book. I tired of reading it before I could get to the end.

Of Mess and Moxie gives women permission to find grace and courage in all the ways they feel like their losing at life. When a woman goes through a mess, Jen reminds us it's not because we're failures; it's because we're alive, braving the world one story, one messed up lunch bag at a time.

I recommend this book for yourself, a friend, and your mom. It's a fun gift and fun read.

Jen Hatmaker makes me howl with crazy laughter and weep bitter, salty tears. Of Mess and Moxie is by far my favorite book by this author, and I've liked/loved them all. Jen speaks to us as if chatting with her BFF (and don't we all secretly think we are?) and isn't afraid to tell truth on herself. I love all the hilarious "How to" chapters in OMAM, but the chapter I keep going back to is about the challenge of and freedom in forgiveness. I read it - twice - then read it again, aloud, every single sentence, to my husband. "While forgiveness might feel like abandoning justice, it actually sets us free. It liberates us from the crushing responsibility to oversee the resolution, which may or may not ever come." Thank you, Jesus, for giving Jen these words of wisdom - from her own experiences - to share with us.

I received an advanced reader copy in exchange for my honest review.

Once again, Jen Hatmaker makes me feel like her best friend giving real life advice, funny anecdotes, amazing recipes, and Honest truth in her latest book, Of Mess and Moxie. This book is written in the same format as "For the Love" so it's a great read for a busy mom of three who can only digest one chapter at a time before she gets pulled away by a needy 3 year old. I absolutely adore the realness Jen brings to anything and everything she writes. I adore that Jen tells it like it is and has no shame in the fact that even (or maybe especially) as a Christian woman life is still messy, kids still drive you nuts, and southern football moms are a real force to be reckoned with.

I received an advanced reader copy of this book for my honest review.

My girlfriends and I love Jen Hatmaker and her other books, but I picked up this one with a bit of trepidation. I am single and childless, so really, despite a similar age bracket, could Jen really get me? But she does. You don't have to be a pastor's wife and momma to four to feel loved, accepted, and even understood by Jen. She is hilarious and meets you right where you are!

Thank you to the publisher for the advance reader copy of this book!

As I read "Of Mess and Moxie", I could "hear" Jen's voice in my head. She is a truth-teller and someone that ALL women can somehow identify with, which truly comes through in her writing. I am in the process of getting my bachelor of arts degree so extra books are something I really have time for but I knew I had to buy and read this one! It's a book that you need to read and you won't regret it, tears and LOTS of LOL's!

Jen Hatmaker does it again with Of Mess and Moxie. You will probably cry, you will nod in agreement, you will laugh. A lot of the laugh. Hatmaker just "gets it". She fills you up with grace and love and encouragement and reminds you that we are all in this thing called life together. We are all, at times, a hot mess, so let's be messes that are filled with moxie!

I received an Advanced Reader Copy in exchange for my honest review.

I was lucky to receive an advanced readers copy. I loved this book from beginning to end. Jen cheers on women through our triumphs and our struggles, through bravely sharing her own. Her vulnerability is relatable and inviting. I found myself snorting and laughing then soberly nodding my head, feeling comfort in some of my own struggles. I will be buying this book for my friends and family for sure!! It is truly for "all the girls!"

As she did in For the Love, Jen Hatmaker weaves together humorous essays with those a bit more emotionally charged. Of Mess and Moxie successfully achieves this blend, leaving the reader challenged, but not overwhelmed.
Her writing style in this book is best described as casual/conversational.
Disclosure: I received an Advance Readers Edition (ARC) of this book.

I am a fan of Jen Hatmaker, I have been for a long time. With that being said, I don't agree with everything that Jen believes, or says, but I think that I would same the same thing about most authors whose books I read. I enjoyed of Mess and Moxie! It was entertaining, funny, serious, thoughtful, thought provoking, and emotional in many different ways. My favorite chapter was "Fangirl", where she encourages women to love and encourage the ones you live with, live by, live for. Go crazy over your own people - over-love them, over-value them, over-encourage them. I crave friendships like this!
I would recommend this book to any of my women friends, no matter where they are in life right now.

I was given an advanced copy to read and I am glad. Of Mess and Moxie is a gem. At some point in life (or for some of us, all through life) we all are messy- relationships, self, families, careers, whatever, and Of Mess and Moxie reminds us that we are not alone and we can choose to have enough moxie to meet it head on. Funny, witty, and encouraging.

The One Book You Need to Read THIS WEEK

Friends, let me introduce you to my dear friend Jen Hatmaker.

Okay, okay, we’ve only met once IRL but let me tell you that her latest book had me in tears at the grocery store laughing about “the puberties” and I am finding myself thinking that things are much more “tender” than they were before. Her description of what it means to work at home is just. too. good and her book really is “for ALL the girls.” She takes you from Forgiveness School through life as a mama of toddlers, to the life of babies becoming grads - and for me as someone who doesn’t even have kids of my own yet, I felt like I could still relate to every bit of it!

Seriously, I’m off to buy copy number two so I can give it away to someone who needs it! Get yourself to the store like yesterday.

I didn't want it to end. Seriously. I read a paragraph a day for months because it was THAT good. Thank you JH for helping me through such a crazy season of life. I needed to know I wasn't alone. And I needed to send you some energy so that you knew YOU were not alone! Thank you for being you. I dig it.

I gave it three stars for supporting some women, but an disappointed she seems to hate victims,calling them anemic and weak. You are not weak if you're vulnerable and broken. Many people are not feeing very moxie-ish when they've been terribly abused, this is not a crime. There's a time and place to be protected, comforted and loved, I wouldn't feel comforted being told I was pathetic for being grief stricken or for not feeling like superwoman. Conservatives usually hate the word victim because they keep victimizing people, but I've been told she's progressive. Funny way of showing it. Maybe there's a strain of feminism that needs to be corrected that is hard on victims for not being empowered. All being said and done, there are some redeeming features to the book, and she seems to be trying to support women.

*I received an advance reader copy from the publisher.*

Love. Love. Love. My endorsement is published IN the book, but here it is for you:

"No matter age, social status, or beliefs you will be challenged and changed by this book. Of Mess and Moxie will make you ugly cry, it will make you laugh, and most importantly it will speak life to you." - Heather Gerwing

Jen Hatmaker will disappoint you. She says so right there on page 213, because she’s human. In Of Mess and Moxie, Hatmaker vulnerably brings her humanness to light, offering up both grace and sarcasm as gifts to her beloved readers through her personal narratives. She reminds us that sometimes the “secular things we love are actually sacred,” and then demonstrates this by moving deftly from the sacred themes (just love everybody) to the mundane stories (on Netflix marathons and dirty dishes), encouraging and delighting along the way.

I received an advance copy from the publisher, and preordered the book.

Of Mess and Moxie was a fun, easy, encouraging, and inspiring read that I read in one day. Honesty and humor are the key ingredients in a Jen Hatmaker book and those are my two favorite qualities in any person's writing. All the women in your life will benefit from this book, no matter their season in life. The laughing and crying you do while reading will be good for your health.

America's girlfriend is BACK!! Jen Hatmaker's latest book is filled with wit and humor as well as soul searching honesty. She is candid and honest and real. She talks about family, Jesus, community, and church and manages to weave them all together seamlessly, pushing me to the brink of tears and then pulling me back with big belly laughs. An absolutely delightful read. I'm recommending to all my girls!!

I received an Advanced Reader's Copy from the publisher.

I was given an advanced copy to read and I am glad. Of Mess and Moxie is a gem. At some point in life (or for some of us, all through life) we all are messy- relationships, self, families, careers, whatever, and Of Mess and Moxie reminds us that we are not alone and we can choose to have enough moxie to meet it head on. Funny, witty, and encouraging.

The One Book You Need to Read THIS WEEK

Friends, let me introduce you to my dear friend Jen Hatmaker.

Okay, okay, we’ve only met once IRL but let me tell you that her latest book had me in tears at the grocery store laughing about “the puberties” and I am finding myself thinking that things are much more “tender” than they were before. Her description of what it means to work at home is just. too. good and her book really is “for ALL the girls.” She takes you from Forgiveness School through life as a mama of toddlers, to the life of babies becoming grads - and for me as someone who doesn’t even have kids of my own yet, I felt like I could still relate to every bit of it!

Seriously, I’m off to buy copy number two so I can give it away to someone who needs it! Get yourself to the store like yesterday.

I didn't want it to end. Seriously. I read a paragraph a day for months because it was THAT good. Thank you JH for helping me through such a crazy season of life. I needed to know I wasn't alone. And I needed to send you some energy so that you knew YOU were not alone! Thank you for being you. I dig it.

I gave it three stars for supporting some women, but an disappointed she seems to hate victims,calling them anemic and weak. You are not weak if you're vulnerable and broken. Many people are not feeing very moxie-ish when they've been terribly abused, this is not a crime. There's a time and place to be protected, comforted and loved, I wouldn't feel comforted being told I was pathetic for being grief stricken or for not feeling like superwoman. Conservatives usually hate the word victim because they keep victimizing people, but I've been told she's progressive. Funny way of showing it. Maybe there's a strain of feminism that needs to be corrected that is hard on victims for not being empowered. All being said and done, there are some redeeming features to the book, and she seems to be trying to support women.

*I received an advance reader copy from the publisher.*

Love. Love. Love. My endorsement is published IN the book, but here it is for you:

"No matter age, social status, or beliefs you will be challenged and changed by this book. Of Mess and Moxie will make you ugly cry, it will make you laugh, and most importantly it will speak life to you." - Heather Gerwing

Jen Hatmaker will disappoint you. She says so right there on page 213, because she’s human. In Of Mess and Moxie, Hatmaker vulnerably brings her humanness to light, offering up both grace and sarcasm as gifts to her beloved readers through her personal narratives. She reminds us that sometimes the “secular things we love are actually sacred,” and then demonstrates this by moving deftly from the sacred themes (just love everybody) to the mundane stories (on Netflix marathons and dirty dishes), encouraging and delighting along the way.

I received an advance copy from the publisher, and preordered the book.

Of Mess and Moxie was a fun, easy, encouraging, and inspiring read that I read in one day. Honesty and humor are the key ingredients in a Jen Hatmaker book and those are my two favorite qualities in any person's writing. All the women in your life will benefit from this book, no matter their season in life. The laughing and crying you do while reading will be good for your health.

America's girlfriend is BACK!! Jen Hatmaker's latest book is filled with wit and humor as well as soul searching honesty. She is candid and honest and real. She talks about family, Jesus, community, and church and manages to weave them all together seamlessly, pushing me to the brink of tears and then pulling me back with big belly laughs. An absolutely delightful read. I'm recommending to all my girls!!

I received an Advanced Reader's Copy from the publisher.

Once again Jen writes a funny personable story for all of her friends. I feel like she's writing just for me and has a window into my life. She knows my insecurities and my joys.
She makes it okay to be the best me that I can be and not be perfect.
"I prefer watching Netflix and eating snacks" just like Jen and my kids eat cereal for dinner too and fight with each other and the dog has never spent a night outside.
Of Mess and Moxie is a must read.
I received an advance copy from the publisher.

I have read many of Jen's books. Of Mess and Moxie has become my new favorite. Written in the same style as For the Love. Her essays range from lighthearted and laugh out loud, to thought-provoking and heartstirring. Her introduction had me welling up with tears. And I immediately had women in my life on my mind who showed extreme Moxie through all of the mess. Jen's style of writing is at its peak here. Writing honestly and eloquently about aging parents and gut-wrenching hurtful times. God is with us and inviting us to come to him with all our mess. Because he is trustworthy. I highly recommend this book!

Jen Hatmaker proves once again that she is FOR us, and she gets us. This is the type of book that makes you want to get on the phone with friends and say, "Here, let me read this to you." This book will have you laughing and crying and feeling every emotion in between. You will also gets some amazing #JHat recipes out of the book.

Full disclosure: I received an advanced reader's copy from the publisher..

Hatmaker's gift with words continues in Of Mess and Moxie. She writes what a lot of us are thinking, whether it is about adapting to changes, suffering, and taking time to use and cultivate our gifts. She also has a wonderful sense of humor that is reflected here.

One of my favorite quotes from the book is about Jesus in Chapter 20 "Fangirl":
"What is not to love about a guy who pulled children onto His lap and saved a failing party and touched the untouchables and told off the religious elite?"

Recommended for public libraries.

Of Mess and Moxie is Jen Hatmaker's latest book. I really, really wanted to like this book. I loved For the Love when I read it. I decided to listen to the audio of this book and I found it so very, very difficult to listen to. I think this would be a great book for someone who feels like they need to overcome their life situation. I did not get anything from it at all, as much as I wanted to like it. I definitely do not recommend the audio version. It was so difficult to listen to. I received a digital copy of this book from the publisher. These opinions are entirely my own.

I love this book and Jen Hatmaker. This book is all about parenting and life and how when you fall on your butt you need to get back up and keep going. It has a fun vibe that makes me feel chaos like we are in our lifes. The book jumps around a lot but is very relateable in every aspect of life.

Of Mess and Moxie is one of Jen Hatmakers best. I loved 7 and For the Love and have spread the Jenn love far and wide. Jen and I were meant to be BFs if we didn't live so far apart. She makes me laugh, cry and feel deep. Her words are our thoughts and fears and concerns are in our hearts. I love how she parents and loves on those forgotten. She is real and is imperfect. She makes us moms who struggle every day know we are not alone and it's ok to have a glass of wine and cry/fight for the world. My Jenn crush is real and you need to read this.

This read was delightful! It was like sitting with a friend on the front porch with a cup of coffee, talking and laughing. That is how Jen writes..very familiar. While there is a lot of humor related to how we navigate our lives for real, there is serious thoughtful lessons in forgiveness shared as well! This will be a great gift for the woman in my life! I was provided with an Advanced Reader Copy for this review.

5 stars!! We all have a lot more Mess than intended and we need a bunch of Moxie to get through. Whether you feel like you are killing it or barely getting by you will laugh, cry and share with your friends. This book is just one more on Jen's that I consider a MUST READ. I received an Advance Reader Copy.

If you don't snort-laugh at least a few times during this book, then you probably don't already LOVE Jen Hatmaker like I do! But give it a try - I think you'll find something to relate to, from the messiness of our everyday lives to seeking and treasuring the tribe of girlfriends who walk alongside you on your journey. You can plow through it in a day or two, or you can savor each essay slowly...or you can re-read it multiple times and be encouraged each time! However you take your Jen Hatmaker "meds", don't forget to take them with a side of moxie!

This book is high in sarcasm and low in substance which may have been intentional if her goal is to be a comedian. The rapid fire wit is exhausting but it may be exactly what other readers want. Like it or not, the girl can turn a phrase and is truly a gifted writer. I have read two of her other books which were inspiring. I don't think this book was intended to inspire and in that case, it will be a complete satirical success.

Of Mess and Moxie is a book that made me laugh, nod my head in agreement and call a friend to discuss. I appreciate Hatmaker's writing (and recipes) and even when I disagreed, she made me think, which I believe is a sign of a good book.

Hilarious and REAL truths for women in the thick of LIFE. THis is a come AS YOU ARE book that helps you see that YOU do great things everyday and it's real and it's messy, but it's tremendously good. I love Jen's heart and you can hear her voice sing through the pages: you are loved and you are valuable and you are good. And all the same time, Jen's witty sarcasm leaves you breathlessly laughing outlloud. An easy fun read! *I received an advanced copy!

This book has something for everyone. No matter what season you are in you will find yourself saying "yes!" And "me too!" And you will likely be inspired to do something for you. I was given an advanced reader copy of this book and loved it. There were chapters I laughed through and chapters I cried through. Hatmaker is showing us what Christianity should/ can be. Have fun with this book!

My young son was very upset with me for writing so much in this book, since WE DO NOT WRITE IN BOOKS. But I couldn't help myself. Jen's words just call out to be underlined, circled, arrowed, asterisked, and amened all over the place. You're going to need a fancy new pen or five.

This is for all of us who need grace - that is to say, all of us. Highly recommended.

*I received an ARC from the publisher.*

I received a copy of " Of Mess and Moxie" to review pre release. By now my little copy is well worn and cherished. I didn't think I could love a book more than "For The Love " but I do!! Sitting down with this book is like sitting with a girlfriend ( that one that tells you the truth even if it hurts a little). There are chapters you will swear she wrote just for you

Jen Hatmaker has done it again. Of Mess and Moxie is hilarious, heartwarming & honest. Jen's relatable, down to earth writing style is such a pleasure to read. I love how she connects with me as her reader, drawing me in, entertaining, encouraging, pointing to Jesus. Thanks for another great read, Jen.

I received an advance reader copy from the publisher.

I absolutely LOVE Jen's books, and her latest addition did not disappoint. It reads like a conversation with a good friend - hilarious and relatable. You will laugh so hard you will cry, and you'll find yourself nodding in agreement during certain parts (possibly even letting out an occasional "amen!"). But also like a good friend, Jen isn't afraid to tackle the tough subjects. Hatmaker writes with wisdom and heart that is relatable to most readers.

Another great collection of essays from Jen Hatmaker! In a similar style and spirit as For The Love, Jen will make you laugh, cry, and pause to think throughout. The message is meaningful and the advice practical, but this book is also just a lot of fun to read!

*I received an advanced readers copy of this book from the publisher.

I swear her books get better each time. Jen sets a wide table for her sisters, and you don’t have to fit in her demographic to laugh, cry, and almost shout AMEN! while listening to the audiobook.
Loved her portion on suffering and sovereignty. It was tender and knowledgeable, and the fact that she didn’t have an answer made her all the more credible.
Thanks for another winner, Jen!

If you liked For the Love, you'll love Of Mess and Moxie. Jen shows how we as women make dealing with families, friendships, and navigating life a little easier with a good sense of humor and a firm faith in God's love for us. You'll be sharing this book with your friends. Grab a cup of coffee and get to reading! I will be reading this a few more times.

After receiving an advance copy of the book, and having read two of Jen's previous books, I could hardly contain my excitement for Of Mess and Moxie! Jen Hatmaker is a storyteller extraordinaire. Her wit and humor open the door for deeper thoughts on life, parenting, relationships and Jesus. In the similar style of her book, For the Love, Jen writes with candor in short essays about her life. Demonstrating through her words that even though life is messy, we can move through the mess with courage and strength and resiliency. We can live life with moxie!

I can’t remember the last time I read a book in under 24 hours, but I just wanted to stay wrapped up in this book: it’s message of relatability, love, belonging, humor, and community. It’s amazing how many books I’ve read that can be categorized as “Christian,” but how this one felt completely fresh, new, and like a hug from a beloved friend. I do not think my review is different from most others on here, but I echo that it’s a must-read and one you won’t regret picking up.

In a world of chasing perfection, Jen Hatmaker encourages and challenges a life of quintessential mess, with the comfort that Jesus alone is enough. Each chapter is like drinking from a fire hydrant filled with humor, wisdom, and practical suggestions soaked in personal stories and lists of pee in your panties hilarious how-tos.
I received a copy from the author and I'm buying all my daughters a copy...and they will be able to read it over and over through every stage of life as they learn to take what life gives and choose to live and love it with gusto and joy!

This book is a reminder that someone gets it. Like an old friend welcoming you home after a long day, Jen's words are a balm for this crazy life. She reminds us that beauty can be found in the mundane, as well as the momentous. That all are welcome to the table, not just some. Rich with truth and kindness, this book makes you want to pull up a chair on Jen's porch and just talk about life (while eating salsa). More than worth your time, I promise you'll feel encouraged and lighter after reading this. Don't miss this cheering and restful book.

I listened to this book (read by Jen) through Audible and IT WAS WONDERFUL! If I could gift this book to every Christian mom I know, I would!! What an incredibly impactful book. I laughed, I cried and I was helped through a tough couple of weeks thanks to listening to this book on my way to work. I would recommend it over and over again!! Thank you, Jen Hatmaker!!!

After reading this book, I feel like I've had a coffee date with the author. Jen Hatmaker has a relatable writing style that fits this season of my life (2 no so little kids in he house). There is humor, but also bits of wisdom presented in an easy to embrace fashion.

I received an Advance Reader Copy for my review

I received an advance copy from the publisher. Jen's ability to draw you in close, make you laugh and cray, and just simply remind you of who Jesus IS, is wonderful.
This books speaks to the person in me who longs to help the least and the last, and knows she doesn't have to be perfect to help.

The best read I’ve had in a while. I felt so uplifted in the similarities, Jen knocking down the façade of perfectionism, and really reaching out to us imperfect women. It was like she was taking a day in my life and writing all about it?. I know other people have said it’s like talking to a close friend, it really is.

Everyones life goes through ebbs and flow, it's what you make of it during the season of your time.

I have read everything that Jen Hatmaker has written but this by far is my favorite.

Mess and Moxie shows you with every once of humor Jen has - and darn it, she is funny - that we all go through the same thing.

I received an advance reader copy.
I pulled out the highlighter and pen in a few different spots and began going to work, circling and underlining like a crazy woman! There are some great truth nuggets in this book that caused me to think about my current view and why I do things the way I do. I like when books make me think and continue chewing on the content....well after reading them.

Jen Hatmaker, once again, nails it with Of Mess and Moxie. It was funny, witty, heatfelt, and real, like Jen. If you don't agree with her theology or view points, this book can still be for you, in my opinion. Jen is not Jesus to me, just a writer who happens to love Jesus, too. So if our views don't always match up, that's just fine with me. Of Mess and Moxie is one of my favorites of the year!

* I received this book for free as part of her launch team, but my opinions are all my own.

Lighthearted and fun, Jen Hatmaker reminds us that life is and/both - sometimes we need to use our Moxie and revel in our mess. Hatmaker's folksy wit and self deprecating humor leaves you feeling as if you were telling stories on the front porch with girlfriends. Something for all.

I received an advanced copy from the publisher.

Jen Hatmaker is one of my favorite authors. I almost never read nonfiction, but she makes me laugh out loud, and I can't put her books down. At the same time, she speaks truth into my heart, and makes me cry. Her latest book is just what I was looking for. In a world where we are always made to feel "less than," Jen Hatmaker gives us permission to embrace ourselves.

I laughed and cried in various parts of the book. Many things resonated deeply. Jen Hatmaker's clever writing style brought a relief from perfectionism and reminder how the joys and heartaches of relationships are the stones upon which to build friendships. Additionally the how to sections had both myself and my husband rolling with laughter.

Once again, Jen makes each reader feel like they are her best friend. Only this is the friend that can somehow tell you the hard things about yourself and still have you laughing and crying, but mostly hinking and wanting to talk some more. I appreciate how she pushes each reader to consider a new perspective when faced with the mess and moxie of life.

Aaaaand Jen Hatmaker did it again! Laughter, tears, deep thoughts... this book has it all. I so enjoy her sense of humor and mostly her love for the least of these, her true devotion to the marginalized, her courage, and abiding walk in Christ's footsteps. I have enjoyed this book so much.

I received an advance reader copy so I can share how much I LOVE this book. It is a quick read that will leave you thinking about how you can love your people and place better. Jen will have you laughing and praying all at once. One of my favorite Jen books so far!

Grab a cup of coffee, and pull a chair up to Jen's dining room table. Better yet, grab a glass of wine, and relax on her back porch. She will be there to bring you laughter, tears, grace, wisdom, and Jesus. "Of Mess and Moxie" will give you all these feels and more. So sit back, take a sip, and enjoy a lot of mess and a lot of moxie.
I received an advanced reader copy of "Of Mess and Moxie.'

I was fortunate to receive an advance reader's copy. Of Mess and Moxie is a completely relatable book for women of all ages and stages. Jen Hatmaker has such an ease with her written words that makes it feel like you are on a phone call with your best friend. She covers so many topics that we as women face with humor, emotion, and a raw sincerity that makes the book hard to put down. I recommend this book whole heartedly!

Jen does it again. A combination of short essays and delicious recipes, Jen writes about what all women need to hear. Those in the trenches, moms, singles, retirees....if you're eating and breathing, this book is for you. One chapter you'll be laughing and the next you may be crying. I did receive and ARC, but I will be buying this and suggesting it to all my friends.

Reading this really felt like having a wholesome chat with a friend or sister. Like a dose of good medicine, Jen's humor, humility, honesty, and love for God soak through these pages and made me laugh, nod, question, think, and want to take notes. I love Him more and love people more at the end and am inspired to be a better person.

I've never met a Jen Hatmaker book that I DIDN'T love. However, this one is easily in my top two (along with Seven, which was my first exposure to her and when I fell in love with her writing). Of Mess and Moxie was delightful, convicting, thought-provoking, and hilarious. It's the kind of book you can give to your friends, your young adult former students, and your boss and it will have the same joyful effect. I give Moxie 5 stars!

Jen Hatmaker has done it again! She will make you laugh, cry, and have you shaking your head in solidarity. How she has managed to figure out my thoughts, I'll never know. Touching on many subjects, from light and fun to theological truths (I mean, she covers Netflix binging to loving your neighbor - seamlessly), I'm extremely thankful for her honesty and transparency. I highly recommend this book!

Jen's writing is so honest and relatable I absolutely dread the last page. I just want her to keep going. It's as if we're on her front porch just chatting about life. Her approach is refreshing and satisfying. -I received an advanced copy of this book.

Jen gets me. She's like a best girlfriend that will tell you the good, the bad, and the ugly...and you love her for it! I've read all her previous books and was unsure if she'd be able to do it again with fresh content and she does not disappoint. Received an advance reader copy...but loved it so much I bought another to share!

One of (if not the) best books Jen Hatmaker has written. Combining humor and transparency, it makes us laugh, cry, and show our moxie in big and small ways.One of the best books on life and faith that I've read.

This book was EXACTLY what I needed to hear. Refreshing, entertaining, real and honest. I wish more authors were like Jen and told the real story. The writing is wonderful and easy to read. Highly recommend it!

Jen Hatmaker makes room at the table for every woman, whatever age/season your heading into or coming out of, you will find laughter, encouragement, compassion and love. You are welcome here, pull up a chair and join the tribe.

I swear Jen is in my head every. single. time! She makes me feel human, empowered, and loved. This book will make you cry and want to hold your tribe close. I'm so excited to share this with all my sisters! For The Love taught me so much about loving everyone and this book has taught me how to love and appreciate me!! You'll love this book!!

An outstanding book that made me laugh and cry and examine my beliefs and myself. I felt comforted and challenged. It felt like I was on Hatmaker's porch with her drinking wine and chatting about life.

I received an advance copy of this book from the publisher and I love this book so much! It appeals to women of all ages. It feels like Jen Hatmaker is right there with you, cheering you on! I love her humor and the uplifting spirit of the book. Highly recommend!

I bought this book for my wife and I have found myself picking it up and reading it. Jenn once again has written a stellar book. I'd advise all of the boyfriends and husbands out there to check out Jenn Hatmaker's husband's book " A Mile Wide"

Jen's humor and sarcasm are on point, and she'll have you laughing and crying in the same minute. This is a must-read for any lady with "Moxie", and you'll want to get extra copies to give to your best girlfriends. My favorite JenHat book yet!

This book will challenge you to live the life Jesus has called you to: love your neighbor as yourselves- your true, messy, come as you are, stay a while and laugh, cry, serve, encourage self with the brilliant blend of conviction and humor Jen Hatmaker is known for. I had to stop and read portions out loud to whoever was near me because it was just to good not to share.

Another brilliantly crafted book from Jen Hatmaker! This one did not disappoint (nor did I anticipate it would). The perfect blend of theological truths and intelligent humor have come together (yet again) to keep you in stitches while you simultaneously contemplate what you can do to make yourself a better person for a better world.

This is Jen's best book yet. Truth. Tales. Recipes. If you want an honest look at life and the world, read this. My fave essay is entitled, Sanctuary. She goes there. The whole way. Nice work, Jen!
(I received an advance copy of the book) but have also ordered another copy as well.

I loved this book! I will say that I agree with Jen Hatmaker's theology and therefore find her incredibly relatable. This book inspired me to draw my community closer in order to experience life in a more authentic way. Plus she's hilarious. Obviously.

If I could be friends with Jen, I would. I loved this book so much. As a mom of a toddler and an infant I felt like I needed this book. It inspired me to hang in there as a mother and to enjoy it. Jen writes about other things and not just motherhood. You will laugh and cry with Jen's latest book.

Of Mess and Moxie" is a fun, encouraging, inspirational read. Jen is honest and funny. Reading this book felt like a good chat with a great friend. There's something good in here for everyone. If you are looking for something heavy and super spiritually intense, this is not it. But if you, like me, just sometimes need a pat on the back and a chuckle as encouragement to keep going, you will find that here.

I received an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

I've never been more certain that a book was written just for me. In Of Mess and Moxie, Jen takes all of our struggles, validates them and cheers you on in your battle to overcome them in her own honest and hilarious way. Of Mess and Moxie speaks to all women and opens doors to sisterhood. This one's for the girls!

Jen's humor and sarcasm are on point, and she'll have you laughing and crying in the same minute. This is a must-read for any lady with "Moxie", and you'll want to get extra copies to give to your best girlfriends. My favorite JenHat book yet!

This book will challenge you to live the life Jesus has called you to: love your neighbor as yourselves- your true, messy, come as you are, stay a while and laugh, cry, serve, encourage self with the brilliant blend of conviction and humor Jen Hatmaker is known for. I had to stop and read portions out loud to whoever was near me because it was just to good not to share.

Another brilliantly crafted book from Jen Hatmaker! This one did not disappoint (nor did I anticipate it would). The perfect blend of theological truths and intelligent humor have come together (yet again) to keep you in stitches while you simultaneously contemplate what you can do to make yourself a better person for a better world.

This is Jen's best book yet. Truth. Tales. Recipes. If you want an honest look at life and the world, read this. My fave essay is entitled, Sanctuary. She goes there. The whole way. Nice work, Jen!
(I received an advance copy of the book) but have also ordered another copy as well.

I loved this book! I will say that I agree with Jen Hatmaker's theology and therefore find her incredibly relatable. This book inspired me to draw my community closer in order to experience life in a more authentic way. Plus she's hilarious. Obviously.

If I could be friends with Jen, I would. I loved this book so much. As a mom of a toddler and an infant I felt like I needed this book. It inspired me to hang in there as a mother and to enjoy it. Jen writes about other things and not just motherhood. You will laugh and cry with Jen's latest book.

Of Mess and Moxie" is a fun, encouraging, inspirational read. Jen is honest and funny. Reading this book felt like a good chat with a great friend. There's something good in here for everyone. If you are looking for something heavy and super spiritually intense, this is not it. But if you, like me, just sometimes need a pat on the back and a chuckle as encouragement to keep going, you will find that here.

I received an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

I've never been more certain that a book was written just for me. In Of Mess and Moxie, Jen takes all of our struggles, validates them and cheers you on in your battle to overcome them in her own honest and hilarious way. Of Mess and Moxie speaks to all women and opens doors to sisterhood. This one's for the girls!

Jen Hatmaker is hilarious, touching, and direct in her newest book Of Mess and Moxie. I laughed and shed tears reading this amazing book. After reading it, I felt empowered knowing I am full of moxie (and what a blessing) and also that I'm not alone being a mess sometimes.